Feedback Isn’t a Threat—Here’s How I Make It Work for Me

in FreeCompliments6 days ago

There are a lot of things that we have to be dealing with in our life and most of them are obviously going to be the ones that we are going to think about and do give in a lot of efforts to be getting to the kind of outcome that we desire from them but in the middle of all of that another factor that plays quite a bit of influential role is definitely going to be feedback which is something that can be very much helpful for us to be fine-tuning the things that can actually help us but at the same time it can also be a thing that derails our entire campaign.

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One of the most toughest things to be dealing with is definitely going to be the negative feedback because no matter how strong we feel about ourselves once it happens to us it is going to be something that is enough to be making us in the form of doubt within our own self and also can be something that leads to disturbing our confidence that we had along with the fact that it can also be making us overthink in a very deep manner because of all of this we definitely do try to avoid any kind of negative feedback with ours things that we are involved in but at the same time it can be quite important as well.

Dealing with negative feedback is obviously very important because we can't be completely avoiding it and also never be thinking about the fact that we can't even have a particular mistake that we are involving within the things that we are doing which is why it becomes quite crucial enough to be able to handle all of those negative feedbacks in a very constructive way which is going to also make us completely unaffected by all of those things but at the same time extract the things that are useful for us from that feedback.

The way we approach the negative feedback is going to be very crucial because we need to have a very healthy strategy to deal with criticism. After all, that is something that can be very much influential in whichever way we let it be because it can be quite negative for us if we are lost just because of the comments that were made, but at the same time, it can also be boosting us towards newer heights if we take it in a relevant manner.

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One of the first things that we should be doing in that particular situation is to be actually having that kind of reaction whichever we feel based on the comments that we received and that is something which is absolutely natural but at the same time we should not be acting based on that even if we felt something we should be keeping that to ourselves and trying to have the conversation going and by the end of it we should be trying to analyze the things that have been sent to us and once all of that happens we should have the bit of time which can be very much helpful for us to be processing our emotions.

Apart from that another very important thing that we should be trying to always keep in mind is going to be about recognizing the kind of feedback that we have received because every time negative feedback is not going to be the one that we think it to be because on many occasions it can be quite constructive as well because it is something that lies within those words which is something that we should be trying to decipher and extracting the tips that we can from it.

Once we have done all of that we should be trying to just question our own self that if we feel that there is any kind of Truth and wait within this opinion that we have received and thinking about it we should be thinking about the next step that we should be taking which is something that can be quite helpful for us to be keeping the motion ahead and evolving down the way.

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Another thing that we should be also keeping in mind is going to be about the fact that the source that we are getting that feedback from which is going to be the person who is in question and it is something that can be quite helpful for us to be deciding if not feedback is something that we can actually implement because if someone who does actually care about us or someone who is experienced on knowledgeable in that particular field it can actually be something that may be very helpful for us but at the same time if it is coming from someone who is not having enough knowledge or idea about the particular field that we are involved in or someone who is just jealous then we can easily identify the kind of opinion that they have given to us.

And by the end of all of this we should be trying to just implementing the whole thing that we have received out of that particular interaction which we had along with the response that we can give to the other person who has given us that feedback which should always be in a very calm manner regardless of whatever we have actually got from them and in a very professional manner we should be trying to respond them because it is going to be one of the best things that we can be doing even if it is full of negativity.

In the end we need to understand the fact that negative feedback is definitely going to be something which is going to exist in our life in one or the other way and we can't be moving away from it and avoiding it should not be the best thing that we can be doing but the best thing that we can actually do is definitely going to be having an approach towards it which can help us to respond to them in the best possible manner along with the fact that it can also be essential to help us extract the things that are relevant to us.


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