The world that we are living in is obviously much more connected then what it used to be in the past and slowly there I have been a lot of such social rules that have got to exist in our life that we often find themselves a bit too much intrusion as well which is what makes us think that if they really should be existing or not because your causing more issues then actually been useful for us to be following ultimately.
There are many such social rules which do exist in our life which are not something that we are bound to be follow in but everyone just follows it out of their own goodwill and it is something it is quite invisible but it is one of those unspoken things in our life that everyone tries to follow but on many occasions they get a little bit more difficult to be actually implemented in the way they are intended to.
There are many such social rules in our life that we do think that they should be completely removed and one of them which I personally feel should be on the top of that list is obviously going to be the expectation that people have from people that they should always be reachable and stay most responsively that they can actually exist regardless of anything else because whenever they are reached out it should be available.
It obviously seems to be a very normal thing and also a kind thing to be done to people because we should be there when people need us and also answering to their calls and whenever they want us in one way or the other should be really a good thing but in the modern lifestyle that we all are living that perception of availability has changed quite a lot because of the environment of Technology which has made a seam like we are Virtually available all the time.
Earlier availability was just about when people actually needed us or it was some sort of emergency when people needed help of others but now it has become a very different environment where people are expected to be reply to even the smallest of text in just a very small fraction of time and once that does not happen or the frequency does not match the expectation of the other person it becomes a very swollen situation and that is something which is not really a great thing to be a part of.
This social rule of been available all the time is something that has become much more toxic because of the modern Expectations that people have because it is much more than just been available and also over looking all other factors such as the emotional state of the person and if it is really something that requires the environment of someone else and many such factors are often neglected.
From the time of our existence itself responsiveness has been always one of those things that we all appreciated and it was something that was decided by a lot of other factors in the past such as the distance people were separated by and many other circumstances played a big roll along with the different mediums that we had to communicate in the past but cut to the modern life style that we all are a part of it has become like we all are connected all the time and the other things that people are involved in something that does not even matter for people and they just want others to be available for the whenever they need them.
However there are a lot of other things as well that people need to take care of and also a responsible for which is something that they do feel a lot of pressure as someone is trying to get to them in the middle of all of those things and especially when it is something that is not quite relevant as well which is something that has made all of this a lot more toxic environment which we need to think about quite a lot and ultimately it does cause as quite a lot of trouble.
Whenever it is something that is brought to their attention about the things that they are doing and told they are busy in something it is often look as one of the excuses that people use but in reality it is never really and excuse as we might be doing something and it is a state of life as well which is something that people need to understand because we can't really be doing anything at any given point of time as we already have things to do in advance and in the middle of that it is not very easy to be putting in something else.
One of the biggest impacts that been available all the time has on us is definitely going to be on our energy itself because it is going to be one of the most needed resources to be able to Cater others all the time as it definitely is not easy to be available for everyone but when we are it is definitely going to be taking a lot of energy out of us and our emotional involvement is also going to definitely make us feel emotionally tree and by the end of it which makes ask question about getting involved in things or not.
Communication is obviously one of the most important things in our life and once we are trying to do it with someone else we should be trying to understand the situation rather than forcing it on someone else because it should be something that both of the people in world want to be doing rather than forcing it on someone else and understanding that might be one of the most important things to be done to be actually achieving a healthy bit of conversation.
This kind of social rule of being available all the time and we should be there whenever some needs as obviously good but once it is abused beyond it's actual limits and it is need to have different type of meanings is definitely not going to be a good situation to be in and that is what makes this social rule useless as a whole because priorities are different for every single person and it is obviously very much needed thing to be done in terms of talking with people and being available for them but at the same time there are other things is well that needs to be taken care of and finding a proper balance and also understanding that other person might have something to do is going to be very necessary.
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