I think if you view FFXIV as more of a multiplayer RPG instead of an MMO it makes more sense. I'm just playing every now and then to chill for a bit. It's fun and pretty to look at. I do understand the problems though if you're expecting more of a free and open MMO.
Oh, that's sweet! I hope I get an invitation to at least try it then. I just need a couple of hours to get a feel for it. I see people raging about it online but I feel that those are just the people who have hyped themselves to much and have way to big expectations.