What we desire now may be different from what we desire in a few minutes from now. Sometimes we don't fully understand what we want or why exactly we need them. Sometimes we desire a castle, and sometimes we feel they are fallen, sometimes we laugh hard and the other minutes we shriek to a sad mood and we often wonder why we are different and unstable with our choices, mood, and desire. Sometimes I feel it's life telling us nothing last forever, not even our desires. The fact that we are just humans who are imperfect, lacking, and limited in wisdom makes us vulnerable and weak to life's twist.
A child is being fed with milk at infancy, and as he grows up, he is weaned, and he start to take solid food. Later in life he start to make choices of what he wants to eat and that which he doesn't feel like eating until one day he looses his appetite and don't feel like eating anymore. We become different people sometimes, seeking for happiness, we want this and in few months time we want another, and economist connote this behavior to humans having insatiable desire. Wants and needs change as we grow older, the older we grow, the wiser we become and the more we know what's important or not. Eventually, we start to push things aside that we feel wouldn't support us in our journey through life.
Love they say fade with time, no, it's the people who start to change. Sometimes we change, our mind start to wander and we no longer know who we are, and we keep seeking answers as well as changing attitude to fit our current state. A man under a stressed condition react differently when he is relieved/ stressed free, a man who's sad react differently from when he is happy, and a man act differently in danger compare to when he is secure. Environment changes our attitude and we tend to become different people under different atmosphere. The point is, we have more than one personalities that's only revealed in different situations, because I'm harsh today doesn't mean I'm a bad person, I still have a calm and lovely part. Do not assume a person is all that you can see at that instant, humans change, we become different people sometimes depending on the atmosphere such a person is exposed to, learn to understand people and how they react in different situations.