Several months ago I had a conversation that wasn't very comfortable because it was full of truths, but it was necessary. It was a conversation with my boyfriend, where he told me that we had different tastes in many things, but that the activities he liked weren't to my liking, so sometimes I couldn't go with him because I didn't want to go. And it's true, I wasn't going. However, my thinking was that I wasn't going so I wouldn't be uncomfortable or upset, but I also wasn't denying him the right to do his activities. We all have the right to create a social life and enjoy ourselves in other environments outside of a romantic relationship. But I was wrong about some things, and it was that in many of those activities, he actually wanted to enjoy them with me...
It's true that I don't like some things and they're not at all something I would go to, but I also understand the efforts he makes to go to places where only I like, and so, today we went to see a instrumental show band. I don't like these things at all, and I've mentioned this many times, but today I decided to give in a little because I also have to make an effort and I also have to share the moments, especially because they are moments he likes and he wants me to be there, in his happy moment. So, there I was, in a strange place for me, lol.
Hace varios meses tuve una conversación que no fue bastante cómoda porque estaba llena de verdades pero era necesaria, fue una conversación con mi novio, dónde me decía que en varias cosas teníamos gustos diferentes pero que las actividades que a él le gustaban no eran de mi agrado, entonces a veces yo no podía acompañarlo porque no quería ir. Y es cierto, yo no iba, sin embargo, mi pensar era que, no iba para no estar incómoda o molesta pero tampoco le negaba a él ir a hacer sus actividades, pues todos tenemos derechos a crear una vida social y recrearnos en otros ambientes fuera de la relación sentimental pero estaba equivocada en algunas cosas, y era que en muchas de esas actividades en realidad deseaba él disfrutarlas conmigo...
Es cierto que algunas cosas no me gustan y no son para nada algo que yo iría pero también entiendo los esfuerzos que él hace por ir a lugares donde solo me gustan a mi y así, hoy fuimos a ver una banda shoe, estas cosas no me gustan en lo absoluto y ya lo he comentado muchas veces, pero hoy decidí ceder un poco porque yo también tengo que hacer un esfuerzo y también tengo que compartir los momentos, en especial porque son momentos que le gustan y desea que yo esté ahí, en su momento alegre. Así qué, ahí estaba yo, en un lugar extraño para mi, lol.
A little time and effort can go a long way in keeping the relationship strong and meaningful.😍
I'm doing my best and putting an effort, hoping my relationship lasts longer.
That's great. As long as both of you have open communication and support each other. Wishing you the best 🩷
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STOPTienes razón amiga en pareja hay aprender a ceder, porque somos por naturaleza diferentes y hay aprender adaptarnos al otro, para convivir en armonía.
Sí, a veces me cuestan muchas cosas pero trato de pensar también en que cada quien tiene que tener un poco de lo que quiere, así los dos podemos tener momentos felices.