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En la mayoría de las familias siempre hay alguien que es considerado “el flojo”, una persona que no colabora con nada, que no aporta económicamente, ni siquiera se preocupa por su propio bienestar, ya sea estudiar, trabajar o crecer como persona. Por el otro lado también están los que estudian y tienen buenos promedios, colaboran, están pendiente del bienestar de toda la familia y de crecer en lo profesional y personal. Lo preocupante de todo esto es que he visto un patrón en cómo se apoya más al flojo que al que le pone empeño.
In most families there is always someone who is considered "the lazy one", a person who does not collaborate with anything, who does not contribute financially, who does not even care about his own well-being, whether it is studying, working or growing as a person. On the other hand there are also those who study and have good grades, collaborate, are concerned about the welfare of the whole family and grow professionally and personally. The worrying thing about all this is that I have seen a pattern in how the lazy person is supported more than the one who puts in the effort.
Generalmente a la persona floja se le trata como incapaz (aunque no tenga ningún impedimento físico o mental) y se le pone todo en bandeja de plata, se le facilita todo, le hacen regalos, le pagan los estudios, lo mantienen económicamente y además no le dan responsabilidades porque todos saben que no las va a cumplir.
Generally, the lazy person is treated as incapable (even if he has no physical or mental handicap) and everything is handed to him on a silver platter, everything is facilitated, he is given gifts, he is paid for his studies, he is supported financially, and furthermore, he is not given responsibilities because everyone knows he will not fulfill them.
Este patrón escala hasta niveles laborales, donde muchas veces un trabajador recibe su pago y beneficios sin cumplir con su labor, en cambio personas que se esfuerzan, hacen más de lo que se les pide y cumplen con todas sus obligaciones no son tomadas en cuenta y hasta son sancionadas si por algún motivo no cumplen con alguna asignación. Todo esto viene desde edades muy tempranas, continua en las escuela y se va consolidando con los años.
This pattern escalates to work levels, where many times a worker receives his pay and benefits without doing his job, instead people who make an effort, do more than what is asked of them and fulfill all their obligations are not taken into account and are even sanctioned if for some reason they do not fulfill some assignment. All this comes from very early ages, continues in school and is consolidated over the years.
Hasta qué punto somos todos co-partícipes en perpetuar este tipo de conducta que es nociva para todos, ya que estamos alentando a los flojos y a los que verdaderamente se esfuerzan se les da el mensaje que no vale la pena nada de lo que haga, pues el flojo siempre recibirá todo el apoyo porque pobrecito.
To what extent are we all co-participants in perpetuating this type of behavior that is harmful to everyone, since we are encouraging the lazy ones and those who really make an effort are given the message that nothing they do is worthwhile, since the lazy one will always receive all the support because poor thing.
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As a mother I decided to teach my daughters their value as a person and the value of their effort, the best way to help others is to teach them how to do things, not include them in school work out of cronyism if they have not had any interest in participating in the assigned activities. This can be inconvenient because you are labeled a bad person for not letting others take advantage of you. I suffered from this when I was in school and I know how it feels.
Así que mi manera de romper con esta costumbre de premiar a los flojos, es ayudar al que lo necesite con recursos y enseñarlo a hacer las cosas por sí mismo.
¡NO MÁS PARÁSITOS!
So my way to break this habit of rewarding the lazy is to help the needy with resources and teach them to do things for themselves.
NO MORE PARASITES!
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y a nivel de gobierno pasa lo mismo, por lo menos en Venezuela
Pasa a todos los niveles y creo que en cualquier país. Saludos