We all strive for a pleasant and harmonious life - positive emotions, inner satisfaction, easy relationships.
But sometimes we experience discord in our relationships with people - in the family, at work, in society. And it upsets and grieves us. After all, human is a social creature, and it is very important for him to maintain good relationships with other people.
But the hardest and most dangerous - it is a discord with himself.
All of us are characterized by doubt, hesitation, and uncertainty, especially when we are going through difficult situations in life.
Under the influence of changing external circumstances or the need to make hard choices, we lose peace and quiet in our souls. Doubts and contradictions within our own consciousness "tear" us apart, which is why it is so difficult for us to realize and even more difficult to choose among sometimes contradictory desires and decisions.
And we are faced with difficult choices, for each option a different part of our "I" desperately fights for. A "I" that is constantly changing, always in flux.
In this difficult time we may forget all our impressive baggage of knowledge and experience, and remain tense, anxious, fearful and depressed.
Why are choices so difficult?
Because even though there are many different decision-making techniques, any choice involves taking personal responsibility for the decision or action chosen. And it causes internal discomfort because of doubt and fear for the consequences of making the wrong choice.
And if there is no one to help and stop this struggle, you can drive yourself to nervous exhaustion and mental disorders.
But if we share this responsibility with someone incommensurably more knowledgeable and understanding, someone who never changes, and we will trust in Almighty God, we can much more easily and calmly make decisions and restore peace to our minds and hearts.
After all, God is always with us and in us, knows and understands us better than we do, and is ready to support us in every situation. God has the power to guide your decision in the right and best way for you.
This is not the privilege of a select few; it applies to anyone who believes in it.
Some people say, "It is better to make a wrong decision than to suffer through the unknown". But, I think, it's better to make a decision without suffering, and be sure it's the right one. "And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose"(Rom.8:28).
P.S. This post is inspired by @edystringz, which, in a difficult time for me, helped me to get rid of the discord within me.
@alekst7 I cannot agree with you more that the worst kind of discord is one within oneself.
When a person cannot be in one accord with himself or herself it is unimaginable that he or she will live in unity with the others around.
No wonder people go to the ends of the Earth seeing inner peace , but we need not look further than ourselves, it is right within.
We can only discover it within ourselves by making the right choices.
For he knows the thoughts he has for us, thoughts of good and not of evil; to give us an expected end.....
For sure it's better to cast all our cares, and anxieties upon him because he cares for us
Instead of driving ourselves nut from trying to solve our challenges by ourselves
I am proud of myself for inspiring this post and I am blushing as well 🙈🙈☺️
I'd like to see you blushing;))..
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Thanks so much for this great message. I really appreciate.
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Is better we make choice that will not affect us.The choice we make in any thing can bring us down or make us Rich.Is better we think before making any choice
Great write up friend.
Hehehehe discord between others and the one we battle ourselves.
We have to face it head on. Though discord is bound to happen in humans existence
But the main point is to overcome o them and never make it let us down. Discord between wants and desires, discord between likes and dislikes
There are many more not to mention