I don't think keeping secrets take you to so many lies. Why should we let any one know at the first place that something is happening with us.
Everyone has one's own battles to fight and nobody can be in other shoe... being secretive is an attribute of a successful person.at least, this is what I think.
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Thanks for stopping by ma'am.
I appreciate your view on this topic, it's more enlightening.