I think that this is one of the reasons why communication before pregnancy is vital. If the relationship is strong and partners learn to speak with one another they will push through the tough moments after the baby is born. A lot of couples separate after the first years of having a child just because of this reason.
I believe that marriage is basically a long conversation with someone you choose to love. So communicating with love is the key. The female hormones go crazy and the male partner needs to know that the relationship is strong enough to remind the mother that the relationship comes first.
I believe that every child would be happier when mom and dad choose to love each other instead of focusing solely on him. It is a long topic and I can only hope that more adults will choose to be informed before commiting to having a child knowing about the shift in post-having-a-baby dynamic
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