Respect is a very important thing that you can't achieve even if you try a thousand times. If you don't respect someone it will never respect you. There is a common saying in our society that if you respect someone, they will respect you from the heart. This is a very common thing in our society. The thing around us in our society is that we always see the person you respect, the person you respect will always respect you from the heart and tell the people around you to respect you. He will try to protest on your behalf now wherever he is. If you want everyone to speak respectfully to you, learn to respect them first. The tendency to give respect must be created in you. If you do not have the will power to give that respect, then you will not get respect from another. There is no greater and true world than this. I will give just a few examples, just personal. You can argue your own comments if you want. I will listen, try to understand and try to understand how much of a difference of opinion you have with me and I will present it to you later through work.
First we start as a family
In this world, women have the biggest grievances against their husbands
I have been watching the world from that beginning. There are some conflicts between men and women. Some complaints are always seen against men, many complaints against women, men, etc. are arrogance. However, it is not only women who complain about men, but also men who complain about women. My words are not there. I just want to say that if the husband gives his wife that respect, and cares about what is good and what is bad, then why shouldn't the wife respect him from the heart? Why would he go against it? So if a husband can show love to his wife, if he can fulfill his needs from the heart, if a man understands well what he means, then why should a wife be angry with a husband, why should a wife complain to a husband?
On the other hand, if a woman does not cheat on her husband, if a wife understands the qualities of a husband properly, if a husband understands his wife, if he understands the meaning of a wife and a husband, if he evaluates his husband properly, then his Why not create respect in between. Where is the problem if he gives respect? The problem is between us, we give more priority to the judgment of our own mind. If we sacrifice a little, it is possible to show due respect only if we understand their words properly.
The person in front of you also wants something, no one thinks about it, no one cares, everyone can only think about themselves. What a person wants from you can be any relationship, maybe father> child, mother to child, husband and wife relationship we see more relationships in our current society. All relationships survive in this one thing if you give love you will get love. If you respect, you will be respected. What will you get if you cheat? Everyone believes that if you give something to someone, you can expect something from them. If you don't give something to someone, how can you expect something from them? If you don't have love, how can you get love from someone else? If you can't love your people properly then you can't love them right at the right time. This is the ultimate truth. The most acceptable thing in the world is that you get what you give from it.
Gaining respect in the field of politics is the biggest challenge
Politics is a field / platform where there will be people in your opposition ideology, where there may not be people like your mind, there may not be what you want, there will be a lot of opposition people against you, there will be, there will be everyone. They will want someone better than you. No one will want your power again. You will go to the government. When the time comes again, he will go to the opposition. We see this very much whenever you have the power and after a while he may not have the power. You have to work at the right time. You will not find any person like your mind here. Sometimes you have to take the challenge in that field before
But if you come to power in government or if you do not respect the words of the opposition. You don't evaluate them properly, you oppress them, you do what is right and you do what is not right. He filled the jail with thousands of cases word for word. If you do not allow them to behave properly, then one day you will face the same situation as you do because you will be able to achieve the power that you have not been able to achieve for the rest of your life. No, you will get better one day and your opponents will get better one day. Those whom you have oppressed will one day be in power. They will apply the same actions that you have imposed on them. This is very normal.
Now suppose you come from power you are the opposition now you want the team against you not to hurt you you are comfortable but you don't treat them well then how do you expect and you get something good from them where you are well respected Couldn't show how they will show you respect there. If you can give them time, you can earn respect. This is my main post.
Try to keep your position by determining where you are
All of us have to keep our position from where we are. You have to see first what position you are in. You have to involve yourself in any task. You have to determine your position first in each task. Can. You need to remember that if you want to do anything from the position you are in, you have to see if you are able to do it independently or not. He tries to get the job done to the detriment of another human being, but it is not right at all. Whether you can do it or not, if you can do it right, if you do whatever you do for the people, if you do it according to the level you have according to your province, then you will see how the people around you are showing you respect. Achieve assessment
Respect they say is reciprocal. You cannot expect to be respected when you yourself have refused to respect others. Interesting post here
This balls down to the world we are. Back in yore, they didn't have all this problems, they lived a loving, respectful and a peaceful relationship.
Why is ours different?
Because women are now claiming equality with the men.
Because some men sold their birth right by lazying around.
Because everyone is feeling he is the boss.
That's why we keep having problems in marriages. No respect, no love, no peace.
When they problems come, both parties will keep pointing fingers instead of working to find solutions.
They won't humble themselves and accept their wrong.
Respect is required 100% to keep a man and a woman going, without it, the two can't work together but rather moving from one problem to another. May God help us.
In today's world people do not respect people so the social degradation is increasing day by day.
Well it goes without saying, to whom much is given, much is expected..
Respect goes a long way.
You are very correct, respect is reciprocal, some people's need respect but they don't give respect to others. My advice is that what you don't like never extend it others.