It's Just a Game, Get Better At It

in Proof of Brain25 days ago

Xander stared blankly at the ceiling, feeling the weight of the world pressing down on him. Just a few months ago, his life had been on track - a steady job, a loving partner, and big plans for the future.

But now, it felt like everything was falling apart.

He had lost his job in the latest round of corporate layoffs, his relationship was on the rocks, and mounting bills were keeping him up at night with anxiety.

No matter how hard he tried, it felt like he was losing at this "game" of life. The shame and hopelessness were almost too much to bear.

"Why is this happening to me?" Xander asked himself one evening, fighting back tears. "I'm doing everything I can, but I just can't get ahead."

In his darkest moment, a realization began to dawn on him: maybe life isn't a matter of "winning" or "losing" after all. Maybe it's simply a game that we all have to learn how to play better.

The turning point came another evening as Xander found himself scrolling mindlessly through social media. Seeing everyone else's seemingly perfect lives only served to highlight the chaos and struggles of his own situation.

In a moment of surprising clarity, he swiftly closed the app and whispered to himself, "This isn't real. It is just a game, and I need to get better at playing it."



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With that realization, he knew couldn't keep playing the game of life the way he had been. He needed to step back, assess the situation, and develop a new strategy - a "game plan" to help him start turning things around.

It wouldn't be easy, but he was determined to level up his life, one challenge at a time.

Over the next few months, This new "game plan" was put into action. It wasn't always smooth sailing, and there were plenty of setbacks along the way. But slowly, steadily, he began to see progress.

The job hunt became less daunting, his relationship started to mend, and he felt a growing sense of control over his finances.

As Xander reached new milestones, he reflected on the key lessons he had learned about mastering the "game" of life. With each win, his confidence grew, and he knew he was capable of navigating any challenge that came his way.

This was no longer a game he was just trying to survive - it was one he was determined to thrive in.

So if you're feeling overwhelmed, remember: life is just a game. The rules may not always make sense, and the challenges can feel impossible to overcome.

But with an adaptable mindset and evolving strategies, you can level up your "gameplay" and tackle the journey head-on, no matter what obstacles come your way.


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@tipu curate

Thanks for the curation again, I really appreciate it :)

you're welcome (:

This is truly a lovely and eye opening read.

No matter how low in life one is it feels, there's a chance to do better and even become better.

Yes. I think when life gets soo bad for us, not taking it too seriously and viewing it just as a game we need to get better at can be a powerful shift to get out of that bad situation(s) we find ourselves in.

Thanks for stopping by :)

True

You're welcome

Aha! Xander found the secret :) A change in mindset did the trick hehe. You wrote it beautifully. Love the final take you left us with😉

Yes, he did! That's what is often needed to breakthrough into the next level, trying out a different pov and strategies.

Thanks for stopping by :)

Life simplified to be a game that one can be an expert at with an outstandingly positive mindset set on winning is a great way to go about it.
I like the new concept of passing such a resounding message too, brilliant 🤩

Right. I think storytelling is also a good way to deliver certain concepts. Besides, it's also more relatable.

To a certain degree, most of us can accept that life can be pictured as a game and a positive mindset can be a cheat code to getting better at it.

Thanks for stopping by, Whitney :)

I agree wholly. Story telling does make a concept more relatable and a whole lot easier to understand and remember.
The pleasure is always mine.