A big greeting to all the readers of this great community, this time I am going to talk to you about how it is to manage an expectation so that in the future it does not affect you and you can maintain your level of work that has cost you so much.
We all know many people who are afraid of flying, afraid of losing everything and then having everything. For this reason, fears do not come from what is feared, if not from all the ignorance that is generated around them.
For this reason, we must learn to manage our lives so that the expectation that we want becomes more to us. There are several ways to manage and understand them, which will allow you to take a big step forward in your career to success, and some of them are.
1- cause positive surprises. In business with your employees, with your boss, with your children, with your parents, with your teachers, with your students ... get them to expect little from you, you can give them the best of your promises, exceed their expectations and offer them more. of what was expected. The whole key is to be in a little rush to promise and a lot to deliver.
2- avoid negative surprises. If we look a little closer, one of the ways that we can use as an example is turbulence, if we know everything that happened in the cabin or if the captain informs what he is going to do during the flight, those repulsive drinks for the passengers could be avoided. Managing your ignorance, the difference between not anticipating something negative and doing it is the difference between being scared or not, so if you are in a negotiation, say the price even if you are scared, everything you say afterwards will improve the initial negative impact of the mind of the customer.
3- be aware of the dangers of those you are used to. The danger of regularity is that once a custom is created, it provokes an expectation that settles in the minds of the people and against which it is very difficult to hide, if you have given me something ten times in a row, the message that you have given my head is that there is no reason to think that number eleven is going to be different from the previous ones
Advice: the danger is not so much in feeding the giant, but it is to be aware that you have tasted the existence of him.
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