Not Many, But True — The Value of Real Friends

in Hive Learners16 hours ago (edited)

No matter where we live or who we are, everyone has friends, and we are often with the same kind of people since childhood. Or should I say childhood friends remain friends till they grow up. Everyone has a different perspective on friends. Everyone has friends. Some people have had friends since childhood. Generally, those who are childhood friends know everything about us, and we know everything about them. Many people make friends after going to college, and some people have had friends since childhood or should I say since school itself. Many friends stay together from childhood to adulthood or at least till old age and they know a lot about each other and they know when their friend needs some help or when their friend is worried or when he is happy, they know a lot about each other. Especially if I talk about boys. Boys get very emotional after friendship, and nowadays, to be honest, a lot of time has changed, and it is a bit difficult to trust anyone.

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But having friends in our lives is very important and makes our lives much easier because often you can't share everything with your family. That's why you need your friends, and they know what you're up to. Because, look, some friends are the ones who have been with you since school. They know who you are and what your nature is. Yes, our behaviour also changes as we grow up, but our basic human nature remains the same; our friends know it. That's how we really are.

It is very important to have friends in our lives. Where I work, there are almost 40 people working there, and I am friendly with everyone and avoid everyone. Earlier, I used to have some friends, this also used to trouble me that why I avoid everyone, I don't know why, maybe I am afraid of making friends, I don't know, whatever the reason may be, look, if you want to know about a person, then first you will have to make friendship with him, only then you will get to know about him. If you don't know him, then keep it in your mind. It is a wrong notion for them; they make different kinds of notions. And in this way, there can be a lot of misunderstanding between you. If I talk about my office, then all the people there stay together at home, and we have a lot of fun, we also make fun of each other, and to tell the truth, the bad days become very fun-filled, and sometimes we don't even realise the time.

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And see, situations are not the same all the time. If your friends are with you, then you have courage and you have hope that your friends are standing with you, and this hope and courage are very important. Sometimes we lose a lot of tiredness, or should I say, sometimes we lose a lot of courage, due to which, if we have someone to support us, then it makes a lot of difference, and if your friends support you at that time, then you also become happier, and you also try to be with them and stand with them. Stand firm in times of trouble.

Actually, true friends are those who stay with you without any motive. As you grow older, you find more friends who are interested in you because they want to take advantage of you in some way or the other. If you earn a lot of money, your friends think that you should spend it all the time, or whatever, and they always try to take advantage of you. But your true friend doesn't care about all these things, and it doesn't even matter to them. Which of my friends earns more and which of my friends earns less? See, whether you are rich or poor, it is very important to have understanding between you, and this is what makes your friendship deeper. If you buy such things to compete with your friends, which you think you can fit in with them, then you are in the wrong place.

So the bottom line is that having friends in our lives is very important. If we have friends in our lives, then life becomes much easier because we share many things with them and also spend many more fun moments.

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Most of my closest friends came from high school and college. I've really struggled with forging deep connections since college because the older I get, the more relationships are built on ambitions, value and reciprocity

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I don't know why, but I think the friends who last the longest are those who emerge in childhood or adolescence.
I know times have changed, but I want to continue trusting people, and I offer my sincere friendship to everyone beyond what they are capable of.