Many things will keep going wrong as long as people don't stop putting religion and sentiment in a situation where they are supposed to think logically.
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Someone said that no matter the situation you find yourself in, even if you have no home or source of income, if you mistakenly impregnate someone or you get pregnant, you must keep it and not kill an innocent child.
Then I asked: Killing a fetus that has not yet developed a brain or feelings, or bringing an innocent child into the world to make him suffer when you don't have what it takes to care for him, which one is the bigger sin, since we are going the religious way?
This is the reason why we have so many unkempt children; the only role the parents took in their lives is giving birth to them.
Someone also said that the moment you start having sex, it means you are automatically ready to have a child. But how does that even make sense? sexual desire is a natural part of life, and it is not something people can simply switch off. Many married couples are not ready for a child yet - they want to build their future to a certain level before bringing a baby into the world, so they can give that child the best life possible.
Does that mean they should not have sex? Of course not. People also talk about ways to protect an unwanted pregnancy, but most of those ways are not safe or good. Family planning is a bad idea, as there have been a lot of complaints from those who have done it. Some women experience bloating that makes their stomach look like they are a few months pregnant, others have irregular periods, and some deal with different reactions. So acting like family planning is a simple solution is not always realistic, and using CD is not as enjoyable as raw[flesh to flesh], more than 90 percent of people I asked said they don't like using CD because they don't feel it.
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I find it ridiculous when people say leave the child, as if they would contribute a dime when you eventually give birth to the baby. We should learn to stop criticizing and respect people's decisions when it comes to these topics because, in the end, we won't be the ones to bear the responsibilities and expenses that come with childbearing.
Regarding the decision-making between two partners when the woman is pregnant, it is very important to tell the man before taking such a big step,, and if my partner does something like that without involving me or letting me know, there is nothing else worth fighting for, it is over and no one can persuade me into having such a person in my life again, because such decision requires sitting and talking about, if they really want the baby or if they can take care of the baby, it is not just the decison of the woman to take.
In my opinion, Abortion is not a sin, and for those who say it is a sin, it is just the necessary steps to take when we don't want it, but it should not be encouraged either; such steps should only be taken when necessary.
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And your when necessary it's okay to take even as a young adult?
If the young adult is doing what couples are doing , she will also get what the elders are getting , and if she is not ready or the person who impregnated her is not ready to accept it or told her to abort it, what is the point of keeping especially if she doesn't have a strong backbone like a rich parent or wel to do parent ready to help her cater for the child and her .
Hmmm can't argue here, just that some things have become normal in the eyes of people, which it ought not to be
Ok o, so if you get get raped and unfortunately became pregnant, you wil keep the baby?
Cos it is not normal to abort
The topic is controversial and debate full. Some time the situation arise and their is no option left other then abortion but pregnancy arises for the fun is by choice so they should take the responsibility.
well most time, it is often for the fun, some people who really needs this pregnancy dont get it, but two people having fun(could be couples not yet ready for a child) easily get it, and in my opinion, it is btter to abort than to bring a child to the world to suffer for the fun of two.
What to say? It's quite controversial. If fetus take form, it's a living thing and I think one should understand it before that and take necessary steps. I believe that if parents are not capable enough to give a good future to a child, the should not bring the child in this world to suffer.
We share the same thought regarding the matter
There's lot of nuance here and I think people should learn to take responsibility for their actions and at least, think critically before taking actions pertaining to another life that's not their own. Abortion is definitely not a sin, for the most part, depends on context.
i will take it as a lesser sin compared to bringing them to the world to suffer.