African parents in particular have a problem with allowing their adult children be adults. In their eyes, we’re still the same kids they brought up and until you do something to show them otherwise, you’re going to keep getting childish treatment and control from them. I’m glad you made your move. I’m facing similar issues in my house and I still haven’t had the balls to stand up and speak up for myself.
smiles... I understand I used to be like that and why I have some balls now is because I pay my bills, and some bills in the house so I have respect already from it. That is why I can make decisions on my own and they respect it. Soon you would soon brother.
I hope so. I’ll be graduating University in 2 months and I can’t afford to still be given the take it or leave it treatment at home. I’m just praying I get a job or at least something that can help me pay my own bills like you. Maybe that’ll do it for me too. I think landing on Hive is a step in the right direction give or take a few months of pure unnoticed hard work and consistency lol.
you are about being done from the university.. which course?
Bsc Biochemistry. It’s not as fancy or important as you might think.
Also if you don’t mind me asking, what brought you back here? It’s been a couple days and even I almost forgot I made this comment. So I was a little surprised when I tapped on the notification and it brought me here.
Smiles... https://engage.hivechain.app/inbox
That site above let you see comments you forget to you reply or you ended up not seeing due to too many notifications. I have been busy and not been able to blog for 3 days, so I have been checking around.
Another resource discovered. New level unlocked! Thank you for this! You just demonstrated how serious you take engagement and that inspires me.
I hope you get to deal with whatever is keeping you busy and get back to blogging. I’m sure a lot of people miss your presence. Have a great rest of your night:)
Engagement is what took me this far. I am nothing without it, unless I am probably a whale that doesn't need it. But as far as I know, it is important to engage with other authors to go far on Hive. It doesn't show immediately but you should blindly follow it and you would see the results comes by.