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Is abortion the right call to make when things get out of hands?
Well, this isn't entirely a great topic to speak on because everyone have their different perspective on abortion. Some of which might be good, and some bad.
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To some people, having an abortion isn't really a big deal. They see it as a necessary means to avoid bearing more weight than they want. They believe that once an individual is up for it, it becomes easy and stress free, but I do not agree with this.
There's a myth on abortion, that says every woman has a designated number of children she's supposed to give birth to. So when a lady has abortions a good number of times, there might be a possibility that she'd not have a child again because the children are finished in your womb. While this may be true, or simply a fallacy told to keep ladies in check, I think everyone should be careful so it doesn't come down to this.
It is true that most times, we do not plan for certain things to happen, and when this things happen, there's only little we can do. But yet again, we should keep in mind that there are a lot of risks and complications that may arise during the procedures, and in worse case scenarios, life might be lost.
Honestly, I do not know where I stand on this. Some beliefs say abortion is murder, since it's supposedly a human that is being terminated. But then again, wouldn't it be better to have an abortion than to birth a baby you're not ready to raise? Especially, if no plans has been put in place for situations like that.
One may decide to keep a baby, and end up giving the child a hard life because it wasn't planned. But still, when you abort a child, does the stigma really leave?
Many people stay traumatized after they have undergone the procedure, while to so many other people, it has become a norm.
If I was asked, I'd say having one abortion may be seen as a mistake. Two, may be seen as carelessness, but when it becomes a habit, then it is bad. As a lady, or as a partner, plans should always be put in place to avoid these situations.
There are so many things that one can do to ensure that it never gets to this, because it can be life-threatening.
Secondly, when it comes to keeping or aborting a child, it is oftentimes a tough decision to make, especially when one of the parent insists on keeping the child, and the other insists on taking it out.
It is a fact that a woman would have to bear the weight of pregnancy if she eventually decides to keep the baby, and most times, because we already have a perfect planned future ahead of us, we do not want to keep the baby, even if the man wants that.
But I think, a man or the father should be given an equal opportunity to decide whether he wants the baby or not. As long as a man is capable and ready to raise a child, if he decides to have the baby, I do not think it's right for the lady to do otherwise.
It requires two people to make babies, so it should also take the two to decide if the baby stays or goes. Unless in situations, where the man decides to abort the baby, but the woman wants to keep it. Since the lady is the one bearing the pregnancy weight, she could go ahead and keep the baby against the man's wishes.
Oftentimes I imagine myself in this situation, but only long enough to snap out of it, because abortion isn't something I think I can easily do if things were to go south.
Honestly, I do not think having an abortion should be a plan A once an unwanted pregnancy sets in. The risks attached to it isn't something one should take lightly.
But if I were to find myself in that situation, I would seek the father's consent first, before making a decision. And my decision will solely depend on his opinion. If we are at crossroads, then maybe, I might follow my heart, and do what I think is best for me, and the baby. But, his consent would he sought, first.
In conclusion, having an abortion isn't the right call to make. We all should try and ensure that we set plans in place to avoid such situations. But if it becomes unavoidable, then I'd say it's better to remove a pregnancy, than to have a child that you're not ready to raise. Also, it shouldn't be a one-sided decision.
Both parties made it happen, so both parties should decide what to do when things go south.
But remember, do not give birth to a child that you're not ready to take care of. That is even more worse than having an abortion.
Nice point of view. But if you are going to ask me, I’m also pro-abortion. Let’s set aside spiritual beliefs for the meantime, lol. For example, if the product of the baby that you are bearing is from a non-consensual act, then you have a choice in taking it. Sometimes, religious people always tend to judge why victims of abuse do it. But if you take a look at those Karens, they also commit a sin by judging them.
Well, we ain't supposed to judge anybody though.
But still, everyone is entitled to their own opinion on the matter
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Yeah when there's a habit if abortion it is obviously bad as there are other ways that you can use protection or you can consult family planning and it's better then abortion
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You're right
Abortion shouldn't be a person's ultimate option
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