SOCIAL MEDIA CHATTING, THE GOOD AND THE BAD SIDE

in Hive Learners2 years ago

In our society today, most people's daily routine involves some kind of social media interaction. Social media has proven to be a medium for easy communication where people share ideas and information. Certainly, I can say that this generation is fortunate enough to witness this type of technology development. In as much as social media chatting has the good side, it also has the bad side and for this contest, I will be sharing with you all, one good thing online chatting has done for me as well as one bad aspect of it.

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THE GOOD
Making New Friends: Social media chatting has brought so many wonderful souls across my path. Friends that have impacted my life positively. Funny enough, most of these people I chat with, I haven't beheld my eyes on them but we got so close through chatting, sharing ideas, info, and values that are beneficial to us. Take for instance here in the hive learners community, we do have an hour of hangout on discord every Saturday through chatting. We come together and gradually get to know ourselves more. Most of us including me also extend the chat via DM with some people that we feel we can work with. This tactic has helped me a lot in getting the useful information I needed to strive here. I also chat a lot on the Neoxiancity server, making new friends and learning from others.

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Sometime last year, I sold one of my real estate properties I market online to one of my Facebook friends through chatting. The chat also extends to Whatsapp as long as God knows when..lolz. permit me to say that, chatting is more affordable than making calls, you will also get to express yourself with things that ordinarily you might feel shy to voice out, especially for introverts. Social media chatting has many good sides to me, however, the bad and negative aspects cannot be overlooked 👌

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THE BAD
Addiction: Despite the many benefits of online chatting, it has some unfavorable bad sides. I must admit that most times, I am addicted to chatting online to the point of postponing most of my offline activities 🤦🤦. However, this doesn't happen daily but I am yet to overcome being addicted to chatting. I have skipped my meals sometimes due to the way I am always glued to my phone. Is either I am blogging or I am chatting. I really need to set a timetable if not, my offline activities will be affected...

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From my observations so far, students have suffered low grades and performances due to addictive chatting, perhaps many people are suffering from this addiction aspect of social media chatting.

In conclusion, social media chatting can be very helpful if over usage is avoided! You and I should learn not to be controlled by technology but instead, put things in balance.

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This post was inspired by the #hivelearners community contest on the topic titled CHATTING ON SOCIAL MEDIA.

THANKS FOR READING!!!*

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 2 years ago  

Tbh Social media is one of the blessing indeed for this generation but coming to think about it it is being mis used in several ways. Not only kids but people of all age are literally wasting their time in here and making no proper use of their time whatsoever. I really wish before it is too late they get to realize what they are missing.

But either way like u said there re indeed some benefits. But at the end of the day let's try to not get trapped in these social medias which are not worth spending our time into ;)

 2 years ago  

Exactly my friend...it's really good to make proper use of social media and not to waste some precious time getting nothing in return.
Wow, thanks for this royal visit 👍🤗
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 2 years ago  

Thanks so much Buzzy 👍🤗

 2 years ago  

Meeting new people with positive influence in our lives is one of the best parts about chatting online. I'm glad that you got to experience that too. Wow, it's amazing to know that you found a potential client through social media. Indeed, that's one of the fastest ways to grow one's business.

About the addiction, I think almost everyone can relate 🤣... Although not easy, I was able to get over mine with time.

Great read ma, thanks for sharing! 😊

 2 years ago  

I love to meet new people especially good ones, and this is what online chatting does👌

The sale was like in a dream, someone that hasn't seen me anywhere 😊

This addiction is something else oo
God help me
Lolz

100% agree with the addiction associated with social media chatting. It's like quicksand. You dig deeper and deeper until you realise there's no way to get out of it.

 2 years ago  

You are right and this include both adult and children. The best is to take control of this instead of allowing it to control us
Thanks for dropping by 👍

 2 years ago  

Yeah I perfectly agree with you. Social media chats has its advantages and disadvantages. Though when well managed, I think that the advantages are more than the disadvantages. Like the business point you highlighted, many people have done alot of successful business transactions through chatting and many more examples too numerous to mention

 2 years ago  

The advantages are yummy 😋
I wish we can avoid the bad side 👍

 2 years ago  

Yes exactly. The good sides are far more than the bad sides. The bad sides are avoidable or modifiable too. So we can have more and more of the good sides.

Thanks so much ma.

 2 years ago  

Getting clients on social media is the real deal now, no need bothering yourself about getting a physical store. Just up your chatting game.

For the addiction, creating a balance is the sure way to reduce it.

Lovely write up.

 2 years ago  

My dear, people making millions online through chatting. Just know how to utilize your time and you are good to go.
Thanks so much for visiting 👍🤗🥰

 2 years ago  

I agree with you that most people's lives revolves around the social media which makes them addicted.

 2 years ago  

Exactly 💯💯 my dear 👍

Indeed, social media has both pros and cons. We should just be mindful and use it for its intended purpose. 😀

 2 years ago  

Being mindful is a good word here👍

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 2 years ago  

You have said it all, social media has also helped me in getting to know new people, understanding them better even without seeing them. And most importantly, you can even sell your goods and services through this means.

Nice write up 😉

 2 years ago  

How did I get to know you sef 😂😂
Thanks Nancy

With the used of social media and its featured to be able to chat with my friends I was able to get through with the challenge on my life. Really a positive impact of chatting on me.

 2 years ago  

Yea, it can be positive but we need to be careful about the negative side 👍

It's to be noted because it can ruin someone's life if it can be abuse.
We must be careful at all times.

 2 years ago  

Being careful is the goal 💪

 2 years ago  

Impressive write up. I agree with you that this generation is opportune to have witness this great technology however, most students have lower grades due to this same social media.
I can bet that my nephew never opened any of his book this past holiday because of social media.
Best wishes

 2 years ago  

Yes, we are opportune to witness the advancement however taking charge is the best. My sis in-law too failed her exams before I later seized her phone 😂
No one told her to adjust and study hard.
Striking balance is the best 👍

 2 years ago  

Thank God she adjusted in time.

 2 years ago  

Meeting good people on social media is one of the best thing i appreciate because I've met alot of people on social media and change my life for good 👍.

 2 years ago  

Wow, glad you too have met good people on social media...it's nice only if we can control the bad side 👍

 2 years ago  

Perfectly written dear
Social media would have been a better place for information circulation and business enhancement Platform, but it's noe know to be a place where fraudsters and scammers now carryout their operation

 2 years ago  

It's a good place for information dissemination . however it's negative effects can't be neglected.
I appreciate your visit 👍

 2 years ago  

You're very right. One can easily get addicted to chatting that you end up doing most of the things you have lined up for the day.

 2 years ago  

My dear, it had happened to me several times 😂🤦

Hehe... Setting a timetable to structure our social media use might be a smart move. But then, we would have to be wiling to see it through.

Thank you for sharing this with us.

 2 years ago  

Hahaha 😂😂
The willingness is the Koko 👌👍
Thanks for reading Bruno 🤗👍