Hello beautiful people. Count yourself lucky if you are unmarried and you notice that your date or partner is a career freak or will be someday.
Such a person would go to great lengths to make sure they climb the ladder in their career, they have won tooth and nail to take their career to the greatest height even at the expense of the marriage. Even if it will cost them to stay away from home for months or even years.
Their career comes before any other thing, even their family. This is a wake-up call, to rethink before you say yes! Before you take a stroll down to the alter.
No matter how much you love that person, if you are not going to be able to stay on your own, alone even while married then get ready to be jealous, lonely, depressed, and emotionally downcast, you may not be able to cope.
Let's assume that you got married to an actor or a producer of some sort, and you know this person will be on location for a long time or perhaps, they will be entangled with other people, how will that make you feel?
Or maybe you want to marry a lecturer or a doctor or for another side of it, a business who has to travel frequently and stay away for long periods on business trips or seminars, will you be able to cope, either as a man or woman?
What happens when they get promoted and get to have more burdens or titles, or the business expands greatly?
These are the things you must make sure you are aware of and have addressed, you can't just have all fun and enjoyment, that's why you must strive to communicate often and have heart-to-heart discussions to know what you should expect.
If you desire to have your lover close and safe in your comfort then you must understand that you have to know the kind of person you will be with.
If their career and prospects are not compatible with your heart's desires, it's better to take a walk earlier before marrying them because, after marriage, you can't do that anymore.
Will you be able to cope with a woman who doesn't have time for you or to be with you because duty calls almost all the time? Will you be able to bear with a man who despite being faithful, you barely see him?
Will you be able to handle that absence? Will you not fall into a case of low self-esteem?
These are important questions and also quite dangerous. Will you have the maturity to survive what you see? Hope you will not begin to nag after marriage if you close a blind eye.
Now, let's be truthful and factual, no matter how emotionally mature or understanding you are, there will be a time when you cannot bear the absence of your partner, especially when there is physical and optional unavailability due to their career.
This can lead to infidelity.
This is important so that in marriages, and the dating scene, these deficiencies can be corrected to tackle unnecessary breakups and divorce cases.
Please If you are currently dating/courting, and you notice your partner is a career type of person who won't be always there for you, this is an opportunity to leave the relationship and go to the ones who will be there for you.
If you know that marrying someone outside your field or profession won't give you peace of mind and help you achieve your dreams in life please, save yourself the stress and leave the relationship now.
Unless you want to give it a try and see for yourself.
Don't make decisions that you will regret later.
