THINK TWICE BEFORE BRINGING THEM INTO THIS WORLD...

in Hive Learners29 days ago (edited)


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The rate at which people are giving birth to children in my country is quite alarming and worrisome. One of the problems we are suffering from in my country is OVERPOPULATION, and I believe the natality rate in my country is quite higher than that of any other country, and that is where our problems emerge from big time, and if something isn't done on time, the country will be heading towards deeper ruin sooner or later...

This topic is taking me back to school, under the laws of demand and supply, but let me try to twist it a little bit to fit what I am trying to share more light now; the higher the natality rate of a country, the more the suffering and hardship of those offerings encounter in the future, which means there should be a control to the birth rate in my country if suffering is to be minimized and likely eradicated. The lesser the mouth to feed, the better the situation of the family and that of the country...

Over the years, I have seen a lot of families make the mistake of birthing more than they can care and cater for, imagine a middle-class family with unemployed parents and about 5 children born to them, what do you think will be the end of this family? it is obvious none of the five children share the blame in this case, their parents are the ones to be blamed for bringing to this world children they can't cater to...

Most parents give birth to more than they can cater for out of mistake, and that is where we have a case of children being born by mistake, If these couples know they can't control their urge to make out after having the perfect number of kids they want, why don't they go for family planning, at least with family planning they can do their thing without it leading to pregnancy...

I live by this principle; don't bring them to this world if you can't afford to take of them, bringing children to this world without proper planning and adequate resources is a big sin, if you can't take care of them, don't bring them to this world to suffer for your silly and foolish actions...

In summary, children are not meant to be brought to this world to suffer, don't force them down here if you can't be responsible for them till the end...

And that is enough for an introduction, moving on to what I have for you all today on the topic HOW MANY KIDS?. Join me in the next few paragraphs as I share my two cents on this topic...

        2 OR 3 IS ENOUGH (DEPENDING ON THE RESOURCES)...


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I think regulating the number of kids each family can have is a very good approach to curb the problem of overpopulation in a country, and this is because some families don't know when to stop childbirth, what more do you want when you have both genders already in the family, why should more children be brought into this world, especially with lack of resources. practice chastity until you can afford to take care of kids, don't bring them to suffer because of the fun there...

In my country I don't think there is anything like birth control, a family can bear as many as they want and that is why some families are having 6-7 children lol, well, that should be in the past, because any family that tries such in this modern age and time will see SHEGE PRO MAX lol, as everything is very expensive now...

I honestly think it's high time the government got involved in this, even with the state of the economy, a lot of families out there are bearing more than they can care for, and that is why we have so many beggars out there, the government needs to intervene for things to be normal again, or else the rate at which beggars will increase will be quite alarming...

I believe having 2,3 or 4 kids is enough for privileged and employed families, while for middle-class families who are employed, 2 or 3 is enough, and for struggling families, 1 or none is the best, there will be fewer mouths to feed, which means less problem for them until they are ready and capable...

In summary, I strongly believe regulating the number of kids a family can have will be a step towards making the state of the economy better, with less population, there will be fewer people to cater to, and more areas will be improved and worked on...

In conclusion, we should not make the mistake of bringing children into this world for the wrong reasons, we just need to think about the kids first and not the fun and enjoyment that lies at the end of everything, at the end of the day, that act can take a toll on ones future...

            THANKS FOR READING...
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 29 days ago  

The situation is exactly the same in our country. One should do a good family planning in advance so that there is no problem later

 28 days ago  

exactly man, you have said it all. thanks for stopping by man

 28 days ago  

Most welcome dear.

 29 days ago  

Its just so sad how a poor man will continue to have children knowing fully well he can’t cater for them.

I don’t see this as a mistake but I don’t care attitude. He believes God brought them and will take care of them. How?

 28 days ago  

ahaha, the grace of the lord will feed them lol, thanks for stopping by dear

 28 days ago  

You are welcome @quduus1. Happy mid-week.

 28 days ago  

Like seriously, some families are biting more than they can chew, because I don't know why someone that's still struggling to take care of one children will go ahead to give birth to six or seven children, that's pure wickedness.

 28 days ago  

ahahah, they need to be educated on how to do things properly, not biting more than they can chew, thanks for stopping by man...

I think we should be careful how we approach topics like this.
I agree that family planning should be an important aspect of any society.

I don't think anyone should have the right tobm decide how many kids any group of people should have. And the word "overpopulation" sounds so inappropriate, cos I'd assume you also make up part of the "overpopulation". The word "regulate" too, lol. I see your point, but I don't agree With some ideas or or method.

A simple yet effective way for the government to get involved in managing birthrate is to educate and enlighten people on birth control methods. Free family planning, etc.

 28 days ago  

well i agree but lol i am not part of the overpopulation lol, we are just 3 lol, 7, 8 is overpopulation lol...

You're good 😂

🤝

 28 days ago  

This is the common error of our generation, hence my conclusion that the problem is not over population, that is just a symptom of the bigger disease called IGNORANCE.

Anyone who births without plan is really having much of that.

and sadly, I still need to remind some patients that having sex is what leads to pregnancy, is that how to curb it.

hmmm... ok... lot of birth control articles, its a Hive learners topic.

Well... it all comes down to this na... birth control measures...

You talk about married couples having kids, but by mistake unmarried have kid... and in conservative countries abortion is a issue... or giving birth being single.

I believe that kids should be nought into the world only if your ready, so when ever couples do the process they do whatever is needful... yet again in conservative contries it embarasses someone to ask for contraceptives. There is gender inequality, rapes and things are complicated.

So, you get it if some innocent gets pregnant due to rape, or coertion... its difficult!! and they could be minors..teenagers... if the male gender has a good time but leaves the female to face the circumtance...

We live in a ugly bad world full of insecurities and its not worth bringing anyone into this world that's so unsafe.

Ofcourse, married people can go for family planning, nothing stops them but don't discount unintended pregnancies coming happening through other ways.

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