haha i wouldnt say chinese culture is like patriarch. just for my grandpas situation cuz he always thinks hes right lol and nobody dares to go against him cuz of his status of being older. This is just on my moms side but my dads side has no issue.
O.O I see your wife grandma went crazy lol 4k for random stranger might as well give me 4k :P
Imagine? Lol
o.o imagine the grandma giving me 4k :(?