You're right on point, parents deserve care regardless of how the society sees it, at old age they no longer have the strength they had in their youth, and without support their love would be miserable.
Although like you said, parents who sees their kids has provety elevation channel are wrong, they should put in the work themselves to amazed wealth, cause the child would also be saddled with his own life and family responsibilities.
Of course, children also have their personal responsibilities. If parents brace up..it becomes easier for everyone
Thanks for coming around grandpa with ur well of wisdom