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Remember in our introduction post when we said we’d be doing something special for weekends? Well… here it is!
Each week, we’ll gather all the best questions asked in our Discord community and post them here on Hive for our Weekend Prompt also known as the #HotSeat. These questions are straight from the minds of our members real people, real thoughts, real talk.
In courtesy of the Weekend Prompt
Originally inspired by:
@sam.hangout – creator of the Hangout vibes.
While our motive for the Real Talk Weekend Prompt is a little different, these amazing initiatives inspired us in their own way. Here, we aim to take questions gathered from our Discord Channel during the week and open them up for deeper, thought provoking discussion on Hive.
If you need anything to ask, please feel free to drop your question in our Discord it might just make it into the next Weekend Prompt!
Objective
The Real Talk #HotSeat Weekend Prompt is designed to:
Bring our Discord conversations to Hive so everyone can join in.
Encourage members to share personal insights, life experiences, and honest opinions.
Strengthen connections between question askers and responders.
Spark meaningful engagement that goes beyond surface-level comments.
If you need anything to ask, please feel free to drop your question in our Discord channel it might just make it into the next Weekend Prompt!
- How to Participate
- Pick one question from the list below.
- Reply to it in the comments section of this post.
- Tag the person who asked the question (their name is beside it) so they’ll know you’ve answered.
- You can only tag one person per comment but you can answer more than one question if you want (in separate comments).
- Tagged at least two user to join the conversation not necessarily from the community remember it an open conversation.
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This is your time in the #HotSeat answer honestly, speak your mind, and don’t hold back.
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At the end of the weekend, the person whose question gets the most replies (meaning the most times they’re tagged in the comments) will receive 4 HIVE as a reward from us.
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Last Week Winner
Before we Engage in this week prompt Let's congratulate the Last week Winner @tigrace for the Weekend Prompt
This Weekend Prompt are:
The Author Shared With Us Worship so many people define Worship but few understand the meaning so can tell us what is worship in your own understanding?
The Author Shared With us In a marriage, who has the final say of carrying or terminating a pregnancy?
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@afriken @merit.ahama @empressjay @quduus @goldenproject @pumpdrey @ibbtammy @jmis101
What do you think about my question, some say its the husband bcos he is responsible for the expenses,some say its the wife bcos she is the one carrying it, her life is attached to it, her body structure will change due to that. What are your opinions?
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No wonder I didn't get a notification. You tagged afriken and not afrikens
See ehn truth be told and with full sincerity, BOTH of them has a say and until they come to a conclusion then it's not a mutual or good decision and that's why we must be careful of whom we are ending with because the rightful way to even answer this question depends on the situation surrounding the abortion of the pregnancy. Is it based on the wife's health? Is it because of financial state? Or excess childbearing and the likes.
If it's health based then the wife doesn't even need to say anything cos the lovely husband will not want to lose his darling wife only if na panashuku gbanahead husband.
So they both have a say as long as it is Marriage. Even in a mere relationship, you can't just say as a lady you want to go and abort because you're the one carrying the baby when it's not a mutual agreement between you two which is not even advisable. Better still don't redi if you're not ready.
Without diverting too much... BOTH the Husband and Wife have a say in making such decisions either the man gets money or not, they are both involved in making that foetus exist.
Queen come and take your mic in peace 😁
I see your point. It's just best it's both party conclusion and not one. I understand your point. Thanks so much for dropping your thoughts ❤️
Yeahh you get it. You're wlc
Thank you. God bless you my sister. Why "redi" if you are not ready? 🤣 I love that word.
😂 Naso now Princess.... Oya gimme money for the loving 🤩
@chefqueen
When I saw your question I laughed oo
Indeed it's a hot seat question, I had to quickly do some certain things before sitting down to type this.
It's not a one person decision because it was a conjunction of two people that formed a baby.
From my point of view and answering the exact question.
I think it's best to go with the woman's final decision because with the man's reasons of maybe he might be financially stable to take care of the mother and child can be substituted.
But the woman reasons of being mentally, physically and health wise doesn't have substitute.
A man might threaten not to take care of the child, the woman might be financially stable to take responsibility and decide not to terminate the baby.
But when a woman's health is compromised and not able to carry the baby, with or without the man being financially stable, it is not enough reason to make the final decision.
I don't know if you understand my point ma
It's really a hot seat😂. I think I will choose woman too but I want to hear what others will say, maybe I can get more re enlightened and change my mind. I get your point really well. Thank you so much for giving your thoughts
Alright ma'am
You are welcome 😁
@tigrace
Worship from my understanding without me using my dictionary is deep adoration.
It is done without distractions, comparison, consideration and excuses.
I agree with definition of yours. Worship is something one do willingly, thank for sharing.
@giboss @daverick @phyna @chizzy @nsigo1@beauty197 @kachy2022. Guys come check this question out. What is worship in your understanding. I will be waiting for your response.
This is a nice and deep question @tigrace.
Let me drop my two cents...
Worship for me is first a heart posture or position before the activity. In fact, true worship is captured in the state of the heart.
I like it as @jmis101 pointed that it is clear of distraction. That's why the emphasises is on the heart posture. Sadly, what we see today might not be acceptable as worship before God.
It's also necessary to mention that worship goes beyond an activity, but a lifestyle as a whole. It goes down to our words, thoughts, intentions, eating, conversations, relationships, dressing...just life in general.
If we must worship truly－in spirit and truth－then we must be sincere in it. You shouldn't be coerced, but that you've come to a point you acknowledge God's sovereignty and you pour it forth in adoration.
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Nice one dear.
Btw where did they post you?
Thank you.
For? Sorry...🙂
Service?
Sorry I must have mistaken you for someone else 🤔
That looks !WEIRD !INDEED 🤯😅
Lol.
I guess so. It's alright 😀
Alright dear
@chefqueen
To be sincere, answering your questions is a very tough one and I don't have much to say but in my personal decision, both should come in an agreement as to what to do but the ladies option should be more considered because she will be the one carrying it for nine months
It is a very tough one ooo and I'm glad there is a platform to be able to get answers for questions like this. You also choose the woman. I think I chooses right ,then. Thank you for giving your thoughts
I love the question posed by @chefqueen and it’s a very crucial topic to discuss about.
I believe when it comes to marriage, there’s no separate entity; what I mean is that both of them are now one and united. So, every agreement must be solely based on both of them and not that one would make the decision while the other wouldn’t because it is something that destroys home.
When it comes to pregnancy, it is important they both sit down to iron the issue out and come to a smooth conclusion and agreement that both of them are responsible for the pregnancy and not a one man’s business.
For the termination, I won’t want to give an answer to that because we are talking about marriage here, why think of terminating a pregnancy? That’s not ideal. This is why it is important to discuss about it whether there would be any pregnancy in the first place and not that when it comes, one would be thinking of terminating or aborting which is the same as killing a soul.
I get your point really well but when you said you can't advise termination, there are a lot of reasons that might cause termination in marriage, it might be they still have an infant at hand or income is not favourable at that moment for them but then I understand your point that it's never should be one person decision but the two . Thanks for giving your thoughts