IS TRYING TO FAIL AN EFFECTIVE TACTIC?

in Alien Art Hive3 years ago (edited)

Sometimes when we set out to do something, life has other plans and gives us a big bitch slap instead. We pick ourselves up but we are a bloodied mess with our self confidence in shreds.

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After getting knocked down a few times we stop aiming to succeed and start subconsciously aiming to fail because ultimately it seems like a more effective strategy.

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In the end we are all going to get old and die. Or maybe we don’t even get to do the old part, and we just die young.

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Is there a work around to avoid falling into this trap of submission to failure? (asking for a friend) Self help books usually say things like “stay focused, stay positive, and keep striving for excellence”

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They never seem to say “”Everything is fucked, we can’t win swimming in this sea of stupidity, with each passing day we move closer to death, so we might as well give up trying and just smoke more pot”

There is a little voice in my head that sometimes says that sort of stuff. (It’s name is Numptynuts) but even if it’s right in a way, I don’t like being told what to do, and just because that voice is in my own head, it’s really no different to a voice on a loud speaker telling everyone to wear a mask.

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Why would I listen to either moronic message?. Fuck of masktard, and fuck off Numptynuts.

It’s better to try and fail than never to have tried!

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I've been saying for a long time that this life has no meaning except for the one we gave it. So the only thing left to do for people like us is to enjoy the insanity of it all :)

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Yeah, I'm pretty much Dylan :))) but I try to have along the way

What a bummer.. You got us all fuck-up now.. Listen you need to put a pussy between your legs, that always lifts my spirits... I have 11 to choose from..

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This is not a well cat.. drugs are suspiciously indicated..

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------"so we might as well give up trying and just smoke more pot ”-----

Fuck your on to me ....
And yes , i feel i am drifting away from it all ...
Turning away from it all .... tears in vain , run down and lost in the rain .
Empty mindless and fucked up as the world is today ,.. i became a spaceman in an other place and time .

Trying hard to fail as a gaming god on https://skillgaming.com/user-profile/small01axe/24480
to lure noobs in to wars and battles for some real cash .

Having a virtual octopus pet that stretches from Hive till Uphold , Binance , bitvavo , hedged-btc and many more ... it's like i have the Ferrari on exchange and trade but i always seem to mess up it's gears and fail again .

Is trying to fail , investing on BTCDOWN ? for i also do that .
Trying one thing and fail , that's depressing as fuck ...

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Try many things at ones so some will not fail , for i know failing is as good a part of life , as winning shit is .

I never intended to use the tactics of failing , making mistakes , doing it wrong .
But somehow i did by the logic of learning . ;-)

Happy birthday.

Thanks, lol, are you psycick or does zuccerburg know things?

I have a very good memory for statistics and dates. ACL 428S was my late step fathers registration on his car in 1978. See what I mean?

What was the registration on the last motorbike you had registered in England?

Just testing...

I hear you, sometimes there's a big shit sandwich heading in your general direction and ain't nothing gonna change it.

The art of standing in the middle of a shit sandwich and not eating too much shit is a skill to be mastered in itself!

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Well failure can be definitive, what we deem to be failure might just not be, time sometimes sorts these things out. This one is really thoughtful.

Being a contrarian, nothing inspires me quite like knowing we are all being programmed to accept failure.

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That sucks.. I try to look at the up side.. If the vaccines do what I think they will, there will be a lot of nice homes and used cars available in a couple of years..

Hahaha that's a cheeky but true one.

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Thanks for always being a positive fucker!

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lol, your "next target" is to reach 7500 comments and then what? Even in the wannabe edgelord circles it's still a bunch of fucking hamsters on wheels too into smelling their own farts to ever realize really much of fuckall :) Just stay online folkssssss, keep getting those dopamine rushes for every click as red herrings are thrown to keep people off the really big cullings
bravo

I like Hivebuzz because they give me comments when comments are thin on the ground - but i don't get hung up on targets

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In the end we are all going to get old and die...

You are absolutely right. But it is still better we try to make it before we die than not try at all.
Life can never be fair.

And I suspect giving up is actually a lot harder than trying after the initial buzz wears off

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Lol...yeah, cause you will wonder what people will say if you back off. Crazy!

Trying to fail is such a waste, just outright fail. That's the only way to move on to the next level

Looking the terms of our bet is getting a little more expensive by the day... :)

That's cool, I'm pleased with the price of Hive, definite uptrend so all good

I think I won our bet...

You back? I thought you were banished to steemit?

The economy is fucked...i think I won our bet.

You said the economy would be in recession by midyear, I will pull up your exact comments if you want. I clearly won the bet...

Yes that is exactly what I said.

And the US economy is in recession. What part of the bet did you win?

On this chart - 2020 Q4 - 33.4% down to 2021 Q1 4.5%, down to 2021 Q2 2.5% - what is a recession again?

A recession is typically recognized as two consecutive quarters of economic decline, as reflected by GDP

Here in New Zealand, the figures would be far far worse than that... I suspect the real American ones are as well, but even the official figures show a recession by the end of Q2.

Yes those are estimates in this chart, but we both know the real figures will be lower than these ones.

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Poor Numptynuts is out of a job it seems.

I hope so, if it doesn't shut up I'm going to rename it "Karen"!

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LUV tokens? Thanks! - I hope you are not trying to lure me into a den of debauchery!

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Oh no @frot, I was trying to lure Numptynuts :) ... !LUV

I just searched and found a website: https://numptynuts.uk/hello/

Hi, I’m Dave, AKA Numpty Nuts, AKA ‘Jim, Bob, Fred or whatever your f*ing name is’. Once upon a time, many years ago on a computer far, far away I used to do stuff on the interwebs. Part of which was posting my useless drivel, moaning rants (and the odd cat video) on this blog. Well, the time has come to inflict upon the world once more my nonsensical utterings and questionable opinions. To this end, I’ve had a huge clearout (oooerrr) and am starting afresh.

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Part of which was posting my useless drivel, moaning rants

Classic Numptynuts, oh, the similarities, this cunt be real...

Command accepted!

I don't think this is the average frot's post, is it? However, I'd try and argue with Numptynuts just as I'd argue with the loud-speakers, fighting back is a very effective tactic, too...
You know, I find it amazing how failure differs from one to another, I mean, sitting around not doing shyte is considered failing to me, or at least that's what my Numptynuts told me, she be like: "Get up, get up, get up, do something!" and I always shout back: "Shut up, bitch! I know how to handle this!"... Funny, I never seem to have handled it without that "Get up!" part, our demons mate, we created them to fit with our needs, and that what gave 'em the power to stab us in the back, eh, I need my chill-pill...

... !LUV

Command accepted!

Maybe I'm being unusually un-cynical with this post - but I can see I need a bit of Louise Hay force right now...

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Punisher - is that HEAVY METAL?

Slow Chemical; Alter-Rock,
Heavy Metal vibes maybe cause the hard-knocking Guitar riffs... Take another shot?