I think there's no problem in finding comfort with someone. It's so good to have someone to listen to your problems or support you in general. Finding comfort in them doesn't mean you're treating them as objects. The exploitation starts when you only treat them as your comforter and you don't help them with their problems or listen to them if they have one. Being self-centered and such... This one talks about that, about narcissists who manipulate things so you'll be trapped in their arms, just taking advantage of you in every single way.
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