Hello friends, greetings and blessings to all members of this wonderful community, this time I bring you this publication for us to make a reflection of what is happening with our loved one and we can improve the situation, I hope you like it.
A couple of days ago talking with an old and dear friend, I was taken by surprise when she told me that she wanted to get divorced, I was shocked after so many years of marriage, after going through so many storms it is hard to believe.
We started to talk, well actually she was talking, I was just listening to her reason, which needless to say I know, and while she was talking, this question came to my mind: ¿What makes the love for our partner to end?
¿What makes love for our partner end? And I remembered a book that in a moment of tempest I read and which I recommend. It is called The Five Love Languages, Author: Gary Chapman..
I believe that love must be cultivated every day, relationships go through many stages and if we are not careful we run the risk of exhausting our love tank.
The first stage we live is the one of falling in love, here we only show our best, our best attitude, and as we only want to please there are no objections or complaints, everything is rosy.
We strive to know and understand the way we fill our partner's love tank, making everything easier and more bearable.
But when we achieve our objective, which is to captivate and feel secure, we begin to show ourselves as we are, and discord, strife, mistrust, and routine begin to arrive, we begin to empty our tank, however in some cases love is stronger and manages to tolerate some things, while in others it just runs out.
Couples must have an emotional connection, no matter how long they have been together, when we create abysses in our relationship, is when doubts, anguish, fear come, and we completely lose our reasoning, and at that precise moment we think that the best thing is that everything ends.
It is not necessary to focus only on the negative attitudes of the couple, surely you have more virtues than defects, and when we emphasize those virtues we begin to change our look as we see with the eyes of love, and we begin to fill our tank.
We must be sincere and recognize the areas in which it is necessary to work to maintain a good relationship, and offer quality time, and that during the absences our love tank is full.
We cannot let the storms accumulate until they form a hurricane, it is necessary to listen to what is bothering the couple and if possible take corrective measures to repair the tank.
In some moments misunderstandings will arrive, hurting our heart, we just have to be flexible and drain (forgive) not to let those negative feelings embitter our lives, just be happy, forgive and release, God will take care of the rest.
And finally the moments of intimacy should not be lost, no matter how much time you have together it is necessary that this connection is maintained, of course maybe it will no longer be with the same intensity but it is important to keep that connection active.
Well I say goodbye, thanking you for reading my post, with much desire for success and blessings, and hoping you like it..