Oh man, that sucks. I know how hard it is and right now I can only say that love finds a way. That is true love and who knows it doesn't matter. I assume it has to do with age or a view on life itself.
The fox and hen... One smart and loyal, the other friendly, ignorant and for sure shocked if the fox jumps in front of it.
I am not sure if this story is true for you but if I wish your strength.