Greetings dear friends of this beautiful community @motherhood, today I want to share with you a bit of my experience as a blue mother, I cannot give you great tools or advice because as a mother I have learned as I go, to understand and understand our little ones you just have to open our hearts and let love flow.
Hace 7 años pensaba que todo lo diferente no era normal, pensaba que para poder comprender a mi hijo necesitaba que me hablara porque si no como podría ayudarlo, como saber si necesitaba o quería algo, como reconocer sus sentimientos, y pase mucho tiempo enfrascada en el lenguaje en buscar las formas de que mi pequeño hablara dejando de lado cosas primordiales como enseñarle a valerse por sí mismo, a ser independiente.
7 years ago I thought that everything different was not normal, I thought that in order to understand my son I needed him to talk to me, otherwise how could I help him, how to know if he needed or wanted something, how to recognize his feelings, and spend a lot of time immersed in the language in finding the ways for my little one to speak leaving aside essential things like teaching him to fend for himself, to be independent.
Yo le colocaba límites, pensaba que el lenguaje verbal era algo indispensable y primordial para mi hijo, hasta no hace mucho comprendi que el puede comunicarse de otras formas, sus actos, sus señas, su gestos, era tan fácil comprenderlo y decidí enfocarme más en su aprendizaje personal.
I put limits on him, I thought that verbal language was something essential and essential for my son, until not long ago I understood that he can communicate in other ways, his actions, his signs, his gestures, it was so easy to understand and I decided to focus more in your personal learning.
Enseñándolo a comer solo, a buscar sus zapatos, su ropa, a ir al baño, a tomar de la mano y llevar a dónde me necesite, a comprender mis órdenes.
Y decidí yo adaptarme el, aprender de su forma de expresarse, y su lenguaje no verbal.
Teaching him to eat alone, to find his shoes, his clothes, to go to the bathroom, to hold hands and take me where he needs me, to understand my orders.
And I decided to adapt myself to him, to learn from his way of expressing himself, and his non-verbal language.
Como madre he aprendido a comprenderlo y entenderlo para poder ayudarlo, aún sigo deseando con todo mi corazón que en algún momento llegué a hablarme nuevamente, es mi mayor anhelo, pero si el destino lo quiere así.
Mientras tanto yo he aprendido que un gesto vale más que mil palabras, pues las palabras se las lleva el viento, un gesto quedaráarcado en nosotros para siempre.
As a mother I have learned to understand and understand him in order to help him, I still wish with all my heart that at some point I got to speak to myself again, it is my greatest wish, but if destiny wants it that way.
Meanwhile I have learned that a gesture is worth a thousand words, because the words are carried by the wind, a gesture will remain in us forever.
He decidido ser su voz, su forma de comunicarse con los demás.
I have decided to be his voice, his way of communicating with others.
Me ha gustado compartir parte de mi, me gustaría leer sus comentarios y apoyo.
I liked sharing part of myself, I would like to read your comments and support.
Todas las fotos fueron tomadas con mi teléfono Redmi 9, contenido exclusivo para Hive. Y la traducción fue realizada a través de Google.
All photos were taken with my Redmi 9 phone, exclusive content for Hive. And the translation was done through Google.
Mamá eres una guerrera. El mundo azul es una experiencia diferente en cada familia...tu eres el ángel guardián de tu tesoro, que DIOS te conceda la dicha de escucharlo hablar