No matter how successful we are - we are all losers to someone.
There will always be someone that views others as losers. I don't think for me it mattered much if some people thought I was a loser. The important thing to me is I don't think I ever felt like a loser myself. I lost lots of games, challenges, and some other life opportunities, but none of them every made me feel like a loser.
Glad you are back - left a message for you on your last post to check in :)
I definitely don't feel like a loser because of this - it is just interesting that people seem to prefer it when things aren't going so well in my life. I guess it is the attitude of "How's your Bitcoin doing" when the price is down - but silence when it is up.
I never really understood why people almost abandon long friendships over trivial things, and how they can go out of their way to make others feel bad.
I think the "things aren't going well.." part is they feel they have one up on you, that they are taking you down a notch