We always have choice, Viktor E. Frankl wrote about that. Sure, the choice may not always lead to a good place, but it is choice nonetheless, even should that choice be to think differently or have a particular attitude.
Removing negative or toxic people or situations is of paramount importance to those who want to move forward with more confidence, efficiency and a better chance for greater results...But for some, surrounding themselves with all the shit feels safe, comfortable or whatever...maybe it's just that they don't know how to get on with the drive towards a better life and so staying in place seems preferable. Maybe it's because they gain a feeling of validation to be enmeshed in the drama and gossip of toxic relationships. I have no clue, all I know is that negative people don't make me feel good so I get rid of them.