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Reflecting on this time during Season 3 of The Ultimatum, Vanessa shared her realization that she had to examine her own behavior. She stated, “I kept pointing the finger and I took that finger and I turned it to myself.” This introspection led her to the conclusion that she needed to offer Nick the same respect and communication she sought from him. As she navigated her youthful lifestyle of partying with friends, she acknowledged that she wasn’t presenting herself as someone ready for motherhood, despite expressing those desires.