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The influence of cultural values and pressures cannot be underestimated in the context of dating in China. There is a deeply embedded expectation for men to display wealth and status through material goods—which, in turn, raises barriers to entry for many men trying to navigate relationship dynamics. Additional cultural pressures reinforce the idea that those without financial stability lack desirability.
Reports of extravagant weddings and lavish gifts indicate a competitive social atmosphere where demonstrations of wealth are often more valued than emotional or relational commitment. This hyper-materialistic mindset has shifted the focus away from love and companionship, leading many men to question the worth of these extravagant expectations.