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##15. The Illusion of Stability Versus Peak Experiences
Women may leave stable relationships quietly when a higher-status man appears, driven by the desire for peak experiences rather than stability. The instinct seeks excitement and ultimate status, over comfort and routine.
##16. Creating Distance as a Marker of Value
Men who give women space—delaying follow-ups or showing patience—are often more successful in attracting interest. Giving distance builds tension, which hypergamy interprets as confidence and higher value.
##17. The Magnetism of Uncertainty
Women experience stronger desire when they are unsure about a man’s intentions. Mixed signals and emotional ambiguity sustain attraction, as hypergamous instincts mistake confusion for chemistry, maintaining engagement.