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Children raised by borderline mothers often receive consistent messages that they are not good enough. These messages can take the form of direct criticisms or subtle cues implying unworthiness, failure, or disappointment. Such persistent negative messaging erodes self-esteem and ingrains a belief that one is inherently flawed.
2. The Mother Sets the Child Up for Failure
Beyond emotional messages, a borderline mother may actively set her child up for failure, either intentionally or unintentionally. This dynamic keeps the child in a state of ongoing struggle, reinforcing feelings of inadequacy and helplessness.