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The speaker posits that once women realize they hold significant power in these dynamics, they may experience a change in how men pursue them. Men love the "chase" when they are naive but lose interest when they realize women are offering "discounts" to men they like. If a woman frequently lowers her standards or shows too much availability, men might question her intentions or assume there’s a catch, leading to mistrust or eventual fumbles.
Furthermore, the idea is presented that women who are perceived as "out of a man’s league" tend to cause him to "fumble," or miss opportunities, because he is either hesitant or embarrassed. The argument is that men fear rejection or judgment, especially if they feel they haven't worked hard enough to earn her attention.