As a parent, you have to be very sensitive to the signs your children give. Most children are suffering from so many things because their parents are never watching them. These parents just want to focus more on how they can provide for their children.
And wanting to provide for your children is very good but watching them is equally as important. Don't let your kid develop a problem when watching him or her could have saved it
Yeah, its sad that most parents focus only on one aspect of child upbringing, some either focus more on providing basic things for the children and neglect the moral support or vice versa.
Indeed, it can be tough but finding the right balance is key to raising a heathy child
That's right. The fact that it is tough shouldn't be an excuse for not doing the right thing. So many parents are fund of saying it's not easy and that makes them do little or nothing and they still say they did their best.
Very true, that's not an excuse to not do the right thing. In fact with children involved, there's no excuse.
Hmm, you sound like a father or an aspiring one, hehe. Well said
😂 oh not at all. I'm too young to be a father. I'll be a father in the future God willing
parenthood is not an easy task, this is why I really don't judge how a parent raise their children but they can be both sensitive while trying to provide the children's needs
I have been privilege to know now hard it is to be a parent even though I've not given birth before but then I think that's even the more reason why we should be ready as individuals before getting into any relationship that can bring about pregnancy and take full responsibility for our children.
It's not easy and that's why you have to make sure to do your best so the hard-work won't be in vain
hmmm.... God will help us because things are really getting out of hand, products and groceries, school fees are not triple of what our paid back then
Yeah, God will help us but we also need to help ourselves and that's why it's good to give birth to children that you can take good care of without feeling the pressure so much.
you know lot of us grow up lonely in our homes, some broken, some depressed that's because our parents never took time to look into the depth of our feeling, then we grow up in that same pattern. Honestly I want a change when my turn comes.
I totally can relate dear, changing the narrative for my own family is a goal and I earnestly hope and pray that I don't end up making the same mistakes as my parents.
It's so sad, and I feel you can change it with lots of work put into it
Yeah, I have put in a lot of work
Sad to say that those patterns shape our orientation and who we eventually turn out to be
It's pretty sad we have parents that are uneducated mind_wise, I don't wish to follow in the steps of any of parents.
The truth is giving birth to a child does not really make you a parent, watching your child closely is what makes you a parent, carrying out your duties as parent as well.
Worst is when children have children,who will train and develop who?
Yeah, so true. I think sometimes the parents are most concerned about the financial needs of a child than the emotional needs. I can't blame them though, raising a child can't be easy and you can't get everything right
Parenting in todays world has degraded due to many parent being busy and not having time for their kids.
That's very true,a lot of children may be going through some form of trauma but it takes an observant and knowledgeable person to know this.
You're absolutely right. Parents just have to more observant.