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I totally can relate dear, changing the narrative for my own family is a goal and I earnestly hope and pray that I don't end up making the same mistakes as my parents.

It's so sad, and I feel you can change it with lots of work put into it

Yeah, I have put in a lot of work

Sad to say that those patterns shape our orientation and who we eventually turn out to be

It's pretty sad we have parents that are uneducated mind_wise, I don't wish to follow in the steps of any of parents.