It is interesting to listen to how confident some people are about their view on the world, without actually ever having thought much about it at all. Most of what we learn comes culturally and we never really review or question it, because it seems natural, because it is familiar. It is no different to being indoctrinated into a cult of some kinds from birth, where no matter how much of a mess it is, it feels normal.
100% THIS.
It is only when there is a wakeup call that there is the chance to have a slightly more "objective" look at what is actually going on.