Your grandmother sounds like a wonderful person, the kind of person I wish I had known. It's great that The Boy was able to FaceTime part of the service. Seeing your photos of the Gorge causes me to look forward even more to my trip there next week. I still love the Columbia River and the tugboats.
There's so much going on in your life right now, and probably a jumble of emotions going on as well. Hang in there!