Different cultures have different customs and lifestyles but the reality is that apart from this issue, society changes, the question is whether for better or worse, or perhaps indistinctly. There are as many truths as there are human beings.
There are cultures and countries where polygamy is commonly accepted, it is a way of life, it is tradition and of course there is no question of it being right or wrong. I think it is all other societies that do it.
Of course my opinion is very personal and intimate and this opinion that I have forged depends both on my tastes and the study that I make of today's society and the direction it is taking, as well as where the balance is tipping and why it is so.
I believe that extremes in life are not entirely good, they are like excesses and I think that the right middle is the most appropriate and societies have gone through those extremes, today we are practically in one of them where anything goes, freedom in many cases is no longer that, but a debauchery without a view to very important things that make life as a whole.
My opinion is that for many reasons monogamy is better, although it is possible that when thinking of human beings as primitively animalistic, one reasons that human beings tend more towards multiple partners than towards a single one.
Leaving aside the cultures that accept and live polygamy, I believe that monogamy is the best way to form a family, one constituted with values, principles and optimal guidelines for raising children, tending towards the most correct possible formation of the family circle mentality.
Today the concept of family has been left aside or has been distorted, generating in many cases problems in the upbringing of children and the shaping of their psyche in a healthy way.
When I was a child I was taught that the family was the seed of society and that education within the family was fundamental to the formation of society, one with values, principles of respect, justice, love and many others. I believe that with monogamy this is easier to achieve.
But that is not the only reason, I think there is a more powerful one, the personal one. I don't have children so the first one doesn't apply to me, so now I will talk about my inner self and my feelings. I believe that monogamy is the best way to create that bond between two people who love each other and only two, I believe that this way the bond is more intense, the whole is given to a single person creating something wonderful.
There is no such thing as a perfect person, neither man nor woman, but between two people who are in harmony with each other, much can be achieved. Giving everything to one person, in my opinion, is like turning duality into something harmonious. I know it sounds poetic or mystical.
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I think that in life we look for that other person in whose eyes we know that it is that person and I think that we always look for one, that person for whom we care, whom we love, for whom we feel what we feel, for no one else, that person with whom we look to the horizon looking for the same future, I think that this is possible only in monogamy, although of course another person can find the same thing with two people at the same time. In my case it is not like that.
Of course there are many more reasons, some of them very practical, not as sentimental as the previous one, such as that decision making is easier between two than between more people, which would apply to the simplicity of life as a couple, or a little simpler than if there were more people. And so I could go on listing reasons, but I think these would be the most important ones.
I thought it was a very interesting topic to discuss on this occasion, within the weekend topics that @galenkp presents to us. Thank you very much for that.
And thank you very much for reading this far today, I wish you a very good weekend, see you soon.
Amonet.
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I also agree with monogamy, although I respect cultures that embrace other lifestyles.
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I fully agree. Thank you very much and have a great weekend!
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I agree with you, I respect other people's lifestyles and opinions, but for me, monogamy is best. Excellent point of view.
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I couldn't agree more. If the relationship between two people can get complicated, imagine if there are more people involved. No, thank you. 😉😉
That's what I wanted to express at the end, imagine!!!! Two is more than enough🤣
How are you, dear friend @avdesing?
It's very true that people change, and it's not always for the better. Unfortunately, we live in a world of extremes, and as you rightly say, that's not good. I also believe in moderation and family.
Without a doubt, great things can be achieved between two people in harmony.
I love this weekend challenge; galenkp always proposes very interesting topics.
Have a wonderful weekend!
I agree with what you say and it is fundamental for a balanced society. Thank you very much!
Hello Amonet, good day
It's true that I'm a young girl, but I can see what you mention in relationships and marriages, even at school, in the upper grades, girls have several boyfriends at the same school.
Although I'm a romantic, at this age I'm not thinking about having a boyfriend.
Have a wonderful afternoon.
You are still very young, you still have a lot to enjoy, but I appreciate that you are here with me always sharing with me, thank you!
Hi, I agree with your vision. I don’t find it poetic or mystical; it’s simply yours, and that’s perfectly fine and truly, deeply beautiful.
I am so.... is my vision, I share my life with one and only one. Thank you!
Good evening @avdesing. Regarding family and polygamy, my opinion is that all opinions are conditioned by culture. You also mention this in your post.
At this moment, when there seems to be a debate on the table about who owns children—the family or the State—I think the debate is complex. Families tend to transmit the same values that public opinion shapes.
On the topic of freedom, we agree; freedom is responsibility. The opposite is behaving like Pavlov's dog, which reacted automatically to certain stimuli.
Returning to the topic of monogamy, I have been monogamous, I suppose due to my upbringing. Now I prefer sologamy, and I certainly don't see myself living in a polygamous relationship. Regarding polygamy, I think I share your opinion: I don't see how one can love more than one person at the same time.
There's no doubt you've chosen a thought-provoking topic. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
A big hug.
I have also chosen sologamy for a long time, which helped me to grow and to know myself, it was a great experience. But yes, I only think you can love one at a time and it's wonderful.
Thank you very much!
Good morning @avdsing. I don't think you can love without experiencing sologamy. Regarding the continuation of your message, it's truly beautiful.
Happy Sunday!! 🤗
Exactly, I believe that no one can really love without having gone through that process first. Good morning!Happy Sunday!
Feliz domingo!! 😀🤗
Igualmente!!!🤗
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