Hello there, I hope you're doing well.
I completely agree, being in a relationship is give and take and if done in the right proportion and at the right times there is much that will come of it. I believe it's also important to support the other in things that may not always be of great interest to ourselves; it shows we care, that we support the other and that what is important to them is important to us, because it's important to them.
Thank you for your you comment, I hope you find someone to help you do your gift shopping. The other thing you could do is not do any shopping at all and instead, gift those you value some love, affection, kind words and hugs. Those things are free and should be freely given.
Becca 🎄