I think showing personality and a little reality is good and almost every post I write contains elements of me, the real me, and a lot has many things about me hidden in the text for those wo read carefully, but I rarely open up too much, it's just too dangerous.
My girl-person is very important to me and so I do a lot for her as she does in return. I don't know any other way to be so continue to be a caring, tender gentleman with the ability to protect her when needed, support her and stand beside her no matter what.