Lessons from Chester: Discovering Self-Acceptance
In the midst of the tiring, killing, never-ending hustle of daily life, there's one companion, one friend who never fails to remind me of the simple joys and the importance of self-reflection, a dog. Yes, that's right, my furry neighbor has become a mirror, reflecting back to me the essence of who I am and teaching me valuable lessons along the way. I do not own a dog and due to my job, I can not adopt one. Because I am working abroad frequently and there is no one at home that can take care of my dog. But the one you see in the picture is Chester, he belongs to my neighbor.
We often go for walks in nature with Chester. We go on trips and walks in our neighborhood. Sometimes I thought we traveled together more than the owner, but as I mentioned... his love is enough for everyone. He is very happy when he sees me too.
Usually, I'm pushing myself too hard in the harsh responsibilities and obligations, that loyal companion serves as a gentle reminder to slow down and take a moment to see me through his eyes. Dogs have an incredible ability to perceive our true nature, beyond the facades we often wear for the world. He can see me truly and at all times. That is magic.
With his wagging tail and soulful eyes, my furry neighbor sees the problems that preoccupy my thoughts. He doesn't care about my appearance, my achievements, or the pressures I face. Or my money. Instead, he focuses on the essence of my being, the kindness in my heart, the love I offer, and the simple joys we can live and experience together.
When I'm caught up in the chaos of life, my canine neighbor serves as a beacon of love and mindfulness. He finds delight in the smallest of moments—a gentle breeze, the rustling of leaves, or the excitement of playtime. With that, I can feel alive again. I feel like there is nothing more than ''now'' and always enjoy the ''now''.
In his company, I've learned to carve out time for self-reflection in the most unexpected ways. We embark on leisurely strolls through the park, exploring the neighborhood together. As I watch him sniff the air, chase after cats, and be alive... I find myself ''rushing'' in life..? Do you know what I mean? It feels so fast.
His carefree spirit encourages me to let go of the burdens that weigh me down and to find joy in the present moment. Chester's non-judgmental presence creates a safe space for me to think about my own emotions, passions, aspirations, and challenges. In his eyes, I see a reflection of resilience and a reminder that I, too, have the strength to overcome obstacles.
I just need some time and relax.
Mirrored Love, Finding Love by Seeing Ourselves in Street Dogs Lovely Eyes
Stray dogs also have a special place in my heart. Whenever I encounter them on my daily adventures, I can't help but stop and admire their resilience and the love they radiate. Their wagging tails and hopeful eyes reflect a pure and genuine love that transcends their circumstances. As I show them love, they are able to give back and more.
Lately, I have made it my personal mission to show compassion to these stray dogs whenever I can. I carry a bag of food with me, ready to share a small token of nourishment and affection. Yes, I can't always do that, but at least there is a market around where I can buy something to feed them. When I give them food, I witness a light of gratitude and satisfaction in their eyes - an undeniable reflection of the love they receive.
We cannot love a person we have never met, but they can. In their company, I am reminded that love knows no boundaries and no conditions. Their simple presence encourages me to embrace the joy of giving, even in the smallest of actions.
Through the reflection of love in their eyes, stray dogs have become a source of inspiration, a source of happiness, and even a reminder of the love between all beings. They often remind me of the blissful and reciprocated power of showing kindness, even to those who seem forgotten or ignored.
That's all I wanted to write today. I often recommend looking into the eyes of these mute creatures if you want to see the reflection of love within you, thank you very much for reading.
This blog is inspired by and written for The Inkwell Creative Nonfiction Prompt #33 Reflection. Thank you so much for the opportunity!
I have never been close to any dogs or any kinda animal. In my childhood, I have a bad experience that created this distance but I do admire this creature a lot, their loyalty can't be ignored at all.
Damn, you found your way to relaxation through this one.
I hope you can find that good relationship some day 🙏🤗
I hope so too.
In truth, having a pet can relax us from the daily stress of life, dogs are the most faithful beings that exist and a permanent company no matter what happens.
Thanks for sharing.
Good day.
That is absolutaly true. Even going out once in a day is a positive thing for us 🤗🙏
You have illustrated brilliantly here how we can learn invaluable lessons from animals. Your tenderness towards stray dogs offers a window into the magic that occurs when we take the time to be kind. This was a wonderful read, filled with creative devices that exemplify the simple yet powerful love of a dog.
Although it is obvious reading this story that these are personal photos, in the future please state that directly as well. Thank you for sharing your story with us, and for your engagement with other members of the community.
Thank you kindly i will do that 🙏🤗
It is already recognized by science that the company of some animals can be therapeutic. The very fact of seeing them, sharing with them and even taking care of them, helps us to de-stress. There is a reason why there are therapies with horses, dolphins and even dogs. These days I was seeing how in some countries dogs are being trained to take care of people with depression. Interesting post, thanks for sharing it.
Thank you so much for the insightful comment 🙏 I love how these amazing companions are recognized by everyone 🤗
Yay! 🤗
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This is beautiful and heartwarming, how your neighbor has become your companion to reflect life in simplicity and rush.... Good piece
Thank you kindly for the comment 🙏
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I never knew a dog could make us feel so many relaxing emotions, you beautifully written piece about your relationship with your canine friend makes me want to have one too😊.
I hope you can rescue one as well 🙏🤗
Your kindness and great relationship with Chester and the stray dogs are inspiring.
It is amazing, the great love we can feel when we allow ourselves to enjoy the company of these beautiful creatures that the creator has blessed us with.
Beautiful written and so true! Since I live in Greece, whit my Labrador Sunny, later i also got Bella and cats, my life became so much more joyful. Without them life would be boring, no reason to go out, take time enjoy life and reflect. They are so pure in love, a better friend you can't find. I feel you about the stray animals, I have rescues 3 years ago 4 puppies and found them a loving home, after them I continued, it is hard work without paycheck, but the love, the look in their eyes and in the eyes of new families, is incredible. Now 3 years later we (Me my dogs and cats, and friends) have rescued and find homes for about 400 stray animals. Together we are a team. Have a lovely days with your beautiful dogs around you