The most likely thing was that, "he didn't like the dose", because he took it for granted. He thought she deserved the invitation while you didn't. Dear @rukkie, it often happens that we human beings overvalue some friendly relationship while the other person does not give it the same importance. They feel that they deserve everything and underestimate us, it may be a matter of ego. Everything is happening so fast that we don't realize that the affection is not so reciprocal. Until we take the time to carefully analyze each vivid event in the relationship and perhaps there we will find unexpected answers or things that we did not understand at some specific moment. Maybe you gave 100% in the relationship but she never came close to that percentage. I am referring to what is internal to people, that which we cannot easily see or weigh because it has never surfaced. "The good thing" about an experience as unpleasant as yours is that it teaches us and gives us a great life lesson. Because there may be a great person out there who is dedicated to sharing with us all his friendship and affection and we are so involved in another relationship that the opportunity to enjoy a true friendship may go unnoticed, and we end up accidentally hurting that person so special. The moral is that we must find a way to be willing to embrace real affection wherever it comes from. Because, let's be clear, the best friends are not plentiful and they are not around the corner, Maybe yes?.
Thank you very much for sharing this intimate experience, which addresses a topic as broad as friendship!
I agree with you, after the while thing, I couldn't help but think back about the times shared together which made me realize that I actually gave more. Time, energy and many more.
My experience with her didn't stop me from giving room to other amazing people in my life.
Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts. Greetings to you too.