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in Ask the Hive β€’ 6 years ago (edited)

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Over the years many relationship and business has suffered setbacks due to lack of trust from partners. At a start of any relationship for it to stand it's build around trust but due to imperfection those trust can be broken which can lead to the fall of a business or broken relationship.
My question is:

  • have you ever lose trust on someone you've ever trusted, what was the feel like?
  • when a trust is lost can it be rekindled?
  • what are the ways to build back trust in business or relationship?

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Trust is slowly earned, but quickly lost. If you break someone's trust, they will remember it. That said, I think it is possible to trust again, and we should do it. You can't hold on to hurt forever.

@ddrfr33k yes it's possible to trust again but can it really be 100% just as you trusted before?

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Absolutely. Just experienced it a couple of days ago. 7 months of trust broken and we parted ways only to realize life is too short for meaningless issues.

The trick is to let these issues out on the table and evaluate them. Watch their existence. And accept them. And keep moving.

@sidwrites I had an issue last year when someone I trusted broke my heart. The truth is I find it hard to trust someone but she made me to which in turn left me in pieces though she pleaded to be forgiven which I did but deep down in me I still reflect those pains. Do you think it's easy to forget the pain that comes with it?

Time heals everything. 100 years down the line, you will realize it doesn't matter.

Will you wait 100 years?

Or 1 year?

Wow! This is a deep question @sidwrites but maybe you can forgive but is not easy to forget, is it? Even if you learn to trust again can it really be 100% just as you used to?

YES!

Once you peel the layers and see the flaws completely.. is it easier to trust the person next time?

@sidwrites well it depends on individual cause some will hit you real bad next time, personally I'll forgive but I can't trust 100% until a long time cause that image of hurt will still be reflecting whenever I see that person. So I'll need more time to get over it

They say be with that person for 10 years before you start trusting.

@iamdanny I can't remember any recent betrayal of trust, but I know that rebuilding trust could be more difficult than starting out initially. I believe broken trust could be rebuilt, but it will definitely take time and an awesome amount of work. But it's definitely possible.

Okay @focusnow but personally rekindling trust on someone who betrayed me is a very hard task to me but as you said it can be done but takes a lot of time, I admit

Not really, trust i just like a thin rope, which can be easily broken but cannot be rebuild.

Wow! You best define it @codingdefined,no matter how you tend to repair a broken rope it can never be as smooth as the same so no matter how you try to rekindle trust, it can never be as it were.

That's absolutely correct

Is hard to give 100% trust to someone who broke the trust you have for him.

@onyigreat yes you're right

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