Absolutely. Just experienced it a couple of days ago. 7 months of trust broken and we parted ways only to realize life is too short for meaningless issues.
The trick is to let these issues out on the table and evaluate them. Watch their existence. And accept them. And keep moving.
@sidwrites I had an issue last year when someone I trusted broke my heart. The truth is I find it hard to trust someone but she made me to which in turn left me in pieces though she pleaded to be forgiven which I did but deep down in me I still reflect those pains. Do you think it's easy to forget the pain that comes with it?
Time heals everything. 100 years down the line, you will realize it doesn't matter.
Will you wait 100 years?
Or 1 year?
Wow! This is a deep question @sidwrites but maybe you can forgive but is not easy to forget, is it? Even if you learn to trust again can it really be 100% just as you used to?
YES!
Once you peel the layers and see the flaws completely.. is it easier to trust the person next time?
@sidwrites well it depends on individual cause some will hit you real bad next time, personally I'll forgive but I can't trust 100% until a long time cause that image of hurt will still be reflecting whenever I see that person. So I'll need more time to get over it
They say be with that person for 10 years before you start trusting.
Hmm, I think it worth it. Ten years is enough to study someone and rekindle trust on that person