I also have no desire for violence, just disarming/defunding/etc. In the US at least the police are under public scrutiny like they've never been before and states are passing legislation that either limits their powers or makes it easier for civilians to sue them for abuse.
I'm sure you're familiar with BlueLeaks… a fine example of what is possible.
https://www.australiannationalreview.com/state-of-affairs/superintendent-jamie-templeton-of-the-special-operations-group-has-been-identified-as-the-officer-who-gave-the-order-to-use-the-weapon-and-acting-sergeant-kristian-schouten-opened-fire-with-rubber-bul/
I will never get over how oxymoronic it is for police to describe themselves as officers of peace.