I think that you are correct in regards to current social pressures. Coping with life as it is and with a child must not be easy. But kids never asked to be here in the first place, so I think that it is always the obligation of the adult to adjust to kid's needs and not viceversa. It takes a lot of work for adults I know. To manage the inner self under immense pressure. But that child will grow and we all know that at a certain age we will start to question ourselves about the choices and behavior of our parents. With this thought in mind a parent should nurture the relationship from early on. Because later in life they will collect the rewards in form of attachment style and behaviors. Most likely I guarantee that the majority will reap what they have sown.
!ENGAGE 20