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RE: The kid who hopes

in OCD4 years ago

I think that it becomes hard at times to maintain a positive demeanor with children, especially when there are so many other pressures in life to contend with. I actually think that one of the repercussions of Covid will be the affects of frustrations at this time among family members, as people get increasingly stressed by a type of cabin fever. It isn't easy to maintain composure, but it is useful to learn how to recognize one's own poor behavior and apologize for it - and of course, hopefully learn from it so it doesn't repeat.

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I think that you are correct in regards to current social pressures. Coping with life as it is and with a child must not be easy. But kids never asked to be here in the first place, so I think that it is always the obligation of the adult to adjust to kid's needs and not viceversa. It takes a lot of work for adults I know. To manage the inner self under immense pressure. But that child will grow and we all know that at a certain age we will start to question ourselves about the choices and behavior of our parents. With this thought in mind a parent should nurture the relationship from early on. Because later in life they will collect the rewards in form of attachment style and behaviors. Most likely I guarantee that the majority will reap what they have sown.

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