Sometimes, we all want to be defined by others. We feel once we have no one to fall back on, it means we are failing. This is the wrong way to think. Being single should be a choice and it doesn't have to define how people see you or how your life turns out.
Most of the time we feel being single is wrong because we see people around us in relationships. Being in a relationship is one thing, being happy is another. There are so many people who are in a relationship but they are single. Never let people make you feel something is wrong with you because you haven’t found that person who complements you...yet. Be single by choice, be in a relationship by choice, and only then can you give your best.
Many think something is wrong with them when they have no one to call their own. They feel the need to be identified with someone so they can feel complete or whole, but in the end, they still have a void left in their heart and they keep searching for what’s not lost, and in the end, they sabotage that relationship and they are back to where they started from, and they keep repeating the cycle.
It is a bad state to be in because, in whatever relationship that person finds himself or herself, such a person will always be at the mercy of his or her partner. Their partner sometimes will put forth such a feeling as if they are being shown favour just by dating them or being with them.
...to be continued...
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