A worthwhile idea for life.. 👍
First of all, if you have a job, do not make the job your life. Live your life with ease and joy. If the place where you work is very busy, think about your life during leisure time. Anyone in the workplace can have problems. But when you go home, forget all the problems at work and go home. No matter how busy your place of work is, think of taking two or three vacations. Enjoy that vacation happily and relaxed. Use that time to have fun with your family, have fun with your kids, and share ideas.
Also, anyone who works gets a monthly salary. Live as you can with the salary you get. There is no point in borrowing money to build big houses and big cars. First and foremost, build a home that is comfortable for you and your family. No matter how big houses others build, they don't care. You have to live the way you can live. When you live a very simple life, even when you leave work and come home, you feel very free. To live in debt to the whole country is a big problem for yourself. Also, buy a small car at a cost that is affordable for your family. If you can do all your work in the vehicle you bought and it is good enough for your family, then that vehicle is good. Do not compare yourself with other people's vehicle or other people's belongings. And spend time with your family to the fullest.
In addition to the work you do in life, choose a suitable hobby. Choosing the right hobby can reduce stress in the workplace. Enjoy life during the time you live. There is no point in living life with problems in mind. I say make your family the number one thing in your life. Work only the way you want to build your family. Make good friends, be happy with everyone, and you will feel less trouble in life.